Not according to the courts unfortunately.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Not looking to cheat, but ...
- Thread starter sandal
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
zekko
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 6, 2009
- Messages
- 16,755
- Reaction score
- 9,955
Nothing new under the sun.Looks like nothing much has changed in 8 years, at least there's consistency
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Sharing what I think about that...
As I've been learning from the experiences I lived I saw that, no matter what you do or how you choose to live. People only cares about your choices when they feel that it hurts their own beliefs and moral values... And they judge you because if you're not like them they feel that you're a bad person, only because you have different thoughts and beliefs.
When someone reproaches you for being human and exposing your desires, this is nothing more than his inability to accept that he also has hidden desires that he would never have the courage to face in his mind or expose to someone.
We all have fantasies, we all have tons of sexual fantasies... and even if you love someone so much, you will still feel the need to go there and fvck a different girl. And if you want to do that, go and do that, thats your life and anyone's else.
The only cheating that exists is when you cheat yourself.
People are as preoccupied with speaking as others are immoral in society, but deep down, this person who judges is as imperfect and as immoral as his judges. Cause looking to your inner self is to painful, so lets talk about others people lifes, hum?!
Take responsibility to your own choices and desires... if its good for you, then do it. Just be aware that all choices we made has consequences (good ones and bad ones).
We are living trying to find perfection... On a woman, man, friends, work, family... but it's only a illusion. The concept of Perfection only exist because imperfection exists. If not, there was no meaning for this word. The good thing about life is that we never know for sure about nothing... we are always changing, and thats the good thing... only with that we can grow and evolve.
As I've been learning from the experiences I lived I saw that, no matter what you do or how you choose to live. People only cares about your choices when they feel that it hurts their own beliefs and moral values... And they judge you because if you're not like them they feel that you're a bad person, only because you have different thoughts and beliefs.
When someone reproaches you for being human and exposing your desires, this is nothing more than his inability to accept that he also has hidden desires that he would never have the courage to face in his mind or expose to someone.
We all have fantasies, we all have tons of sexual fantasies... and even if you love someone so much, you will still feel the need to go there and fvck a different girl. And if you want to do that, go and do that, thats your life and anyone's else.
The only cheating that exists is when you cheat yourself.
People are as preoccupied with speaking as others are immoral in society, but deep down, this person who judges is as imperfect and as immoral as his judges. Cause looking to your inner self is to painful, so lets talk about others people lifes, hum?!
Take responsibility to your own choices and desires... if its good for you, then do it. Just be aware that all choices we made has consequences (good ones and bad ones).
We are living trying to find perfection... On a woman, man, friends, work, family... but it's only a illusion. The concept of Perfection only exist because imperfection exists. If not, there was no meaning for this word. The good thing about life is that we never know for sure about nothing... we are always changing, and thats the good thing... only with that we can grow and evolve.
