"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey guys, summer's here and mine has been going kinda slow. the thing is i dont get invited to many things, so im feeling kinda left out. also my closer friends arnt the party type. but i wanna do something, you know just hang out with ppl.

so i was thinking i should invite some friends to do stuff, but what? I don't have a house, so thats out of the question. IF you guys have any suggestions please tell me thx.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if you have cash......

Football season is fast approaching......find a nice sports bar to watch your favorite team, ask friends to join you.

Depending on where you live.....plan a trip to the beach, hall of fame, baseball game, concert etc etc.

Take up a sport.....doesn't have to be serious, ultimate Frisbee, fly fishing, golf, softball, martial arts.


If your friends are not into these things then find one you are interested in. If you genuinely like it you'll be surrounded by people who obviously share that interest. Get out of your comfort zone and make new friends by involving yourself in things you like.
 

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Its summer and its cute sitting on the beach? why dont do that? maybe have some beers... talk and have fun and the cute sunset in background;)
 

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Davezz said:
Its summer and its cute sitting on the beach? why dont do that? maybe have some beers... talk and have fun and the cute sunset in background;)
Beach party was my first thought.

Most of the "action date" ideas are things that can be done with friends.

And don't forget to invite as many HBs as possible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sharp Dressed Man said:
Where do you live then?
i live in an apartment.

hmm, well there are no beaches around here. but i like the ideas. keep them coming. and thx for all the input.
 

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Sharp Dressed Man said:
Whatever, me and my mates have done it at my friend's apartment, nothing bad happened.
i tried that once and 2 of my neighbors were constantly knocking just to know why all the fuzz going around
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All I'm saying is just invite some people back for a few beers. I'm not saying you should host a party or something.
 

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Go out for a late movie. The Black Knight is one of the best this summer.
Then you guys can stroll downtown, look at the sights, get something to eat, etc.

I do that all the time with my friends (both genders) and it works out good. :up:
 

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keep the idea rolling guys! by the way my brother is getting invited to so many parties and me 0, i feel so jealous.
 

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noodle said:
Go out for a late movie. The Black Knight is one of the best this summer.
Then you guys can stroll downtown, look at the sights, get something to eat, etc.

I do that all the time with my friends (both genders) and it works out good. :up:

FYI, it's the DARK Knight ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hire a hooker.

seriously, when your friends consistently leave you outta the loop, you say **** em, and then you go make new friends.

Take up a new hobby, do stuff you are not used to doing. And most importantly, do stuff because you want to do them, not cuz the people around you want to do it and want to manipulate you into paying for it or anything.
 
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