"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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suaveplayer

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hey guys, summer's here and mine has been going kinda slow. the thing is i dont get invited to many things, so im feeling kinda left out. also my closer friends arnt the party type. but i wanna do something, you know just hang out with ppl.

so i was thinking i should invite some friends to do stuff, but what? I don't have a house, so thats out of the question. IF you guys have any suggestions please tell me thx.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if you have cash......

Football season is fast approaching......find a nice sports bar to watch your favorite team, ask friends to join you.

Depending on where you live.....plan a trip to the beach, hall of fame, baseball game, concert etc etc.

Take up a sport.....doesn't have to be serious, ultimate Frisbee, fly fishing, golf, softball, martial arts.


If your friends are not into these things then find one you are interested in. If you genuinely like it you'll be surrounded by people who obviously share that interest. Get out of your comfort zone and make new friends by involving yourself in things you like.
 

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Its summer and its cute sitting on the beach? why dont do that? maybe have some beers... talk and have fun and the cute sunset in background;)
 

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Davezz said:
Its summer and its cute sitting on the beach? why dont do that? maybe have some beers... talk and have fun and the cute sunset in background;)
Beach party was my first thought.

Most of the "action date" ideas are things that can be done with friends.

And don't forget to invite as many HBs as possible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sharp Dressed Man said:
Where do you live then?
i live in an apartment.

hmm, well there are no beaches around here. but i like the ideas. keep them coming. and thx for all the input.
 

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Sharp Dressed Man said:
Whatever, me and my mates have done it at my friend's apartment, nothing bad happened.
i tried that once and 2 of my neighbors were constantly knocking just to know why all the fuzz going around
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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All I'm saying is just invite some people back for a few beers. I'm not saying you should host a party or something.
 

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Go out for a late movie. The Black Knight is one of the best this summer.
Then you guys can stroll downtown, look at the sights, get something to eat, etc.

I do that all the time with my friends (both genders) and it works out good. :up:
 

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keep the idea rolling guys! by the way my brother is getting invited to so many parties and me 0, i feel so jealous.
 

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noodle said:
Go out for a late movie. The Black Knight is one of the best this summer.
Then you guys can stroll downtown, look at the sights, get something to eat, etc.

I do that all the time with my friends (both genders) and it works out good. :up:

FYI, it's the DARK Knight ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hire a hooker.

seriously, when your friends consistently leave you outta the loop, you say **** em, and then you go make new friends.

Take up a new hobby, do stuff you are not used to doing. And most importantly, do stuff because you want to do them, not cuz the people around you want to do it and want to manipulate you into paying for it or anything.
 
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