"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey guys, summer's here and mine has been going kinda slow. the thing is i dont get invited to many things, so im feeling kinda left out. also my closer friends arnt the party type. but i wanna do something, you know just hang out with ppl.

so i was thinking i should invite some friends to do stuff, but what? I don't have a house, so thats out of the question. IF you guys have any suggestions please tell me thx.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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if you have cash......

Football season is fast approaching......find a nice sports bar to watch your favorite team, ask friends to join you.

Depending on where you live.....plan a trip to the beach, hall of fame, baseball game, concert etc etc.

Take up a sport.....doesn't have to be serious, ultimate Frisbee, fly fishing, golf, softball, martial arts.


If your friends are not into these things then find one you are interested in. If you genuinely like it you'll be surrounded by people who obviously share that interest. Get out of your comfort zone and make new friends by involving yourself in things you like.
 

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Its summer and its cute sitting on the beach? why dont do that? maybe have some beers... talk and have fun and the cute sunset in background;)
 

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Davezz said:
Its summer and its cute sitting on the beach? why dont do that? maybe have some beers... talk and have fun and the cute sunset in background;)
Beach party was my first thought.

Most of the "action date" ideas are things that can be done with friends.

And don't forget to invite as many HBs as possible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sharp Dressed Man said:
Where do you live then?
i live in an apartment.

hmm, well there are no beaches around here. but i like the ideas. keep them coming. and thx for all the input.
 

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Sharp Dressed Man said:
Whatever, me and my mates have done it at my friend's apartment, nothing bad happened.
i tried that once and 2 of my neighbors were constantly knocking just to know why all the fuzz going around
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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All I'm saying is just invite some people back for a few beers. I'm not saying you should host a party or something.
 

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Go out for a late movie. The Black Knight is one of the best this summer.
Then you guys can stroll downtown, look at the sights, get something to eat, etc.

I do that all the time with my friends (both genders) and it works out good. :up:
 

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keep the idea rolling guys! by the way my brother is getting invited to so many parties and me 0, i feel so jealous.
 

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noodle said:
Go out for a late movie. The Black Knight is one of the best this summer.
Then you guys can stroll downtown, look at the sights, get something to eat, etc.

I do that all the time with my friends (both genders) and it works out good. :up:

FYI, it's the DARK Knight ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hire a hooker.

seriously, when your friends consistently leave you outta the loop, you say **** em, and then you go make new friends.

Take up a new hobby, do stuff you are not used to doing. And most importantly, do stuff because you want to do them, not cuz the people around you want to do it and want to manipulate you into paying for it or anything.
 
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