"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not interested or playing it cool

SamTheHobit

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Can someone tell me what's the difference.

How to spot the difference.

And give me some examples of girls behaving this way.

Please stay on topic thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Starfvcks 64

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There really isn't much of a difference when you think about it.
"playing it cool" still involves "playing."
playing implies games and games imply low interest.

as long as you are playing it MORE cool AKA showing LESS interest, you should be fine.

i can think of over five billion personal examples, but i think you should post your situation so we can break it down for you.

*i say playing games is low interest, but all girls will play games eventually, in some form. it's natural.
 

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If a woman is interested it is obvious. She will initiate contact, reply to your texts in a timely manner, you call and she doesnt answer she will call you back.

In my experience when they are interested and trying not to show just how interested they tend to tell on themselves but you have to be able to read between the lines to pick up when they do this.
 
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