"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not interested or playing it cool

SamTheHobit

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Can someone tell me what's the difference.

How to spot the difference.

And give me some examples of girls behaving this way.

Please stay on topic thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Starfvcks 64

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There really isn't much of a difference when you think about it.
"playing it cool" still involves "playing."
playing implies games and games imply low interest.

as long as you are playing it MORE cool AKA showing LESS interest, you should be fine.

i can think of over five billion personal examples, but i think you should post your situation so we can break it down for you.

*i say playing games is low interest, but all girls will play games eventually, in some form. it's natural.
 

papawapa

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If a woman is interested it is obvious. She will initiate contact, reply to your texts in a timely manner, you call and she doesnt answer she will call you back.

In my experience when they are interested and trying not to show just how interested they tend to tell on themselves but you have to be able to read between the lines to pick up when they do this.
 
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