Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Not having a GF: A wonderful feeling

WORKEROUTER

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Okay, so I broke up with my GF a couple weeks ago.

I have to say, I feel SO MUCH more relieved now. While we were giong out, I had serious oneitis w/ her and I didn't really realize it. I cannot believe how much time I wasted with her. Dealing with all the drama bullsh*t..and being too p*ssy to see her go kept me CAGED in a situation that was ultimately detrimental to me.

So anyway, we finally DID break up (and it was REALLY because I finally saw that she had totally lost interest in me and wanted to date other people), and I was f*cking depressed for a while (like a few days).

But then, I started meeting other girls.

Now I realize how good it feels NOT to have a gf, at least not being attached to one! Rather than my focus being on the relationship, I can focus on myself, like working out, studying, making money, etc (of course, I should have been doing that ALL ALONG!)

Anyway, it's amazing how one minute I was depressed as hell about us breaking up, but now I wouldn't even start a relationshhip back up with her even if she came back and wanted to! The sex was not worth dealing with her annoying bullsh*t all the time. Anyway, it turns out she ended up getting in another relationship already with some other bloke, and I actually feel unfortuanate for the guy (sure, he might be f*cking her, but too bad I busted her virginity along time ago!)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Sorry to hear your loss but now you will have LOTS more fun!! haha

Makes me wonder what it would be like if I were single.....

WORKEROUTER I'm looking forward to your field reports! :up:
How old is your GF GIG? No, I'm not interested, but you said you took her to the prom. Either you're a 20 year old senior, or she's still in HS?
 
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