"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not giving a fvck leads to results

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Quick story...

Was at the gym last night and saw this cute chick with an amazing ass in tight pants. I saw her kinda checking me out I smiled at her. She smiled back and then I noticed her in my vicinity a few times as i went about my business. Normally I don't bother with this stuff at the gym but I was in a playful mood last night so i said "Do i need to call security and report you for stalking?" She laughed and was like "Whatever! You wish!" But she was still smiling.

So I went super direct and told her "I have to admit I was wondering something." And she was like "Oh yeah? Whats that." And i said "Your ass looks so amazing in those pants, i was just wondering if I came up and smacked it how many times my hand would bounce off it"

She got all red in the face but kept smiling and said "Wow...that was pretty up front. Do you always say stuff like that to women you dont even know??" And I said "Depends on my mood". She laughed and walked away. As I was getting ready to leave I see her out of thr corner of my eye approaching me and she hands me a piece of paper and she says "Here is my number call me sometime and maybe you can test it out yourself"

Guys...be bold and give no fvcks. Dont back down when challenged. It might not work but it just might.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i said "Do i need to call security and report you for stalking?
^ I use this tactic with great success ^

"You can come over, but if you try to seduce me, you are sleeping on the sofa"
 

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Quick story...

Was at the gym last night and saw this cute chick with an amazing ass in tight pants. I saw her kinda checking me out I smiled at her. She smiled back and then I noticed her in my vicinity a few times as i went about my business. Normally I don't bother with this stuff at the gym but I was in a playful mood last night so i said "Do i need to call security and report you for stalking?" She laughed and was like "Whatever! You wish!" But she was still smiling.

So I went super direct and told her "I have to admit I was wondering something." And she was like "Oh yeah? Whats that." And i said "Your ass looks so amazing in those pants, i was just wondering if I came up and smacked it how many times my hand would bounce off it"

She got all red in the face but kept smiling and said "Wow...that was pretty up front. Do you always say stuff like that to women you dont even know??" And I said "Depends on my mood". She laughed and walked away. As I was getting ready to leave I see her out of thr corner of my eye approaching me and she hands me a piece of paper and she says "Here is my number call me sometime and maybe you can test it out yourself"

Guys...be bold and give no fvcks. Dont back down when challenged. It might not work but it just might.
I like it champ.
 

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To anyone else trying this for the first time, there's something else to be learned. It's not about what is said, it's about how it's executed. If poorly executed it would make you seem like a total creep, but almost anything super direct like this can work if executed confidently and playfully.

Nice story though, I can imagine how it would look. That comment was funny!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Perfect line 10 years ago. A *litttttle* risky in 2018 but still good game. Just use it cautiously. Don't get arrested.
 

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follow up plz thnx
It probably wont be til early next week...got a bunch of crap going on over the weekend and a couple exams i need to study for and take for school.
 

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I would change the title of this thread to read "Being Bold leads to results" Never did like the DGAF mentality as it's rather asinine.I have known about boldness in game since 1991.I learned that the main thing you have to watch out for is not the women when worried about being arrested it's the white knights you have to worry about.Once a security guard kicked me out of a mall because he overheard me ask a group of females if they would like to have daddy spank them..they were amused he was not.He kept asking them "are you sure you didn't feel threatened" ? he was trying to be captain save a hoe.You can also use bold game with an LTR my gf loves it when I just " take over" being bold makes them panties wet.
 

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Quick story...

Was at the gym last night and saw this cute chick with an amazing ass in tight pants. I saw her kinda checking me out I smiled at her. She smiled back and then I noticed her in my vicinity a few times as i went about my business. Normally I don't bother with this stuff at the gym but I was in a playful mood last night so i said "Do i need to call security and report you for stalking?" She laughed and was like "Whatever! You wish!" But she was still smiling.

So I went super direct and told her "I have to admit I was wondering something." And she was like "Oh yeah? Whats that." And i said "Your ass looks so amazing in those pants, i was just wondering if I came up and smacked it how many times my hand would bounce off it"

She got all red in the face but kept smiling and said "Wow...that was pretty up front. Do you always say stuff like that to women you dont even know??" And I said "Depends on my mood". She laughed and walked away. As I was getting ready to leave I see her out of thr corner of my eye approaching me and she hands me a piece of paper and she says "Here is my number call me sometime and maybe you can test it out yourself"

Guys...be bold and give no fvcks. Dont back down when challenged. It might not work but it just might.
lmfao i would be kicked out of gym for that text for sexual harassing
 

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Guys...be bold and give no fvcks. Dont back down when challenged. It might not work but it just might.
The repercussions in America in 2018 would be if it doesn’t work;

1) she gets offended and reports you
2) you are banned from the gym
3) you get charged for sexual harassment
4) you get a court date
5) you get fired form your job

If they don’t like what you are selling, these young girls have Power!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lmfao i would be kicked out of gym for that text for sexual harassing
He didn't text, he said it to her face. The reason you don't say it in a text is to not be kicked out of the gym, leave no proof in case it goes sideways.
 

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Quick story...

Was at the gym last night and saw this cute chick with an amazing ass in tight pants. I saw her kinda checking me out I smiled at her. She smiled back and then I noticed her in my vicinity a few times as i went about my business. Normally I don't bother with this stuff at the gym but I was in a playful mood last night so i said "Do i need to call security and report you for stalking?" She laughed and was like "Whatever! You wish!" But she was still smiling.

So I went super direct and told her "I have to admit I was wondering something." And she was like "Oh yeah? Whats that." And i said "Your ass looks so amazing in those pants, i was just wondering if I came up and smacked it how many times my hand would bounce off it"

She got all red in the face but kept smiling and said "Wow...that was pretty up front. Do you always say stuff like that to women you dont even know??" And I said "Depends on my mood". She laughed and walked away. As I was getting ready to leave I see her out of thr corner of my eye approaching me and she hands me a piece of paper and she says "Here is my number call me sometime and maybe you can test it out yourself"

Guys...be bold and give no fvcks. Dont back down when challenged. It might not work but it just might.
You can't make this sh*t up. Well done. We need more stories like this around here.
 

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lmfao i would be kicked out of gym for that text for sexual harassing
It wasnt a text it was said to her in person from 3 feet away.
 

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Pretty cool...I don't have the gravitas to do it without being tasered and thrown into a meat wagon though, I think you need a solid iron frame for this!
 

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right now, of the spinning plates orbiting me, the one thing every plate has said "you are so confident"
especially in regards to sexual topics, and acts. Plates were all spun by funny and bold enuendos...
and all had a mention from this DJ of getting a slap on the ass before plating.

OP will get 'dat azz

opener/line challenge: "well/watchout... if you try to seduce me i will slap your ass for being a naughty girl/pervert"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It probably wont be til early next week...got a bunch of crap going on over the weekend and a couple exams i need to study for and take for school.
Aren't you married bro?
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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