“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Not Getting the Number Online

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If a girl says that she doesn't give out her number online, does that mean rejection? A part of me says yes, but another part is hoping that there could be another explanation. What do you think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
If a girl says that she doesn't give out her number online, does that mean rejection? A part of me says yes, but another part is hoping that there could be another explanation. What do you think?
Ask her to meet you in person and give you her number then. If she refuses and finds another excuse then she is just wasting your time.

NEXT!!!!
 

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I tried it. We'll see what happens.
 

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I still don't understand why guys are so enamored with just getting a telephone number. It's just another step that can be easily omitted and still get to the objective; a fvcking meeting!

Think about it, a woman will give you her telephone number just to get rid of you; face it, it happens. Her IL has little to do with whether she gives you her number.

Now if she agrees to meet you somewhere, that is a definite indicator of a relatively high interest level. Yeah, she could just want a free meal but you have control over where you go and what you do. If she insists on dinner, guess what type of girl she is. It's all about qualifying...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She just told me she had plans for the whole weekend. Oh well. NEXT!
 

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
She just told me she had plans for the whole weekend. Oh well. NEXT!
Umm, there's five other days in the week. Now, she's busy, no big deal. Did she give you a counter offer? Women who are interested may not always be readily available but they will offer a time that they are if they want to see you.

This isn't to say that you don't make an offer, but do it the DJ way. Don't just ask if she's free, tell her specifically what you'd like to do and when. She'll either counter with a day that she's available or make an excuse as to why she can't. Either way, you now know what you should do.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Umm, there's five other days in the week. Now, she's busy, no big deal. Did she give you a counter offer? Women who are interested may not always be readily available but they will offer a time that they are if they want to see you.

This isn't to say that you don't make an offer, but do it the DJ way. Don't just ask if she's free, tell her specifically what you'd like to do and when. She'll either counter with a day that she's available or make an excuse as to why she can't. Either way, you now know what you should do.
This girl didn't even counter-offer. To be honest, I'm just looking to get some. This girl is far from a dreamy hot chick, but she a cute girl on the big side but was do-able. I don't want to make myself look any more desperate than I may have already done so. I just told her to have fun. Thanks for the advice though. Much appreciated.
 

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
This girl didn't even counter-offer. To be honest, I'm just looking to get some. This girl is far from a dreamy hot chick, but she a cute girl on the big side but was do-able. I don't want to make myself look any more desperate than I may have already done so. I just told her to have fun. Thanks for the advice though. Much appreciated.
Then set your sights on another target; you should usually have a few in the pipeline. Don't dwell on the past, it'll hold you back. Just learn something from the experience, make your adjustments, and then move on.

ACT WITH PURPOSE
 
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