You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ask her to meet you in person and give you her number then. If she refuses and finds another excuse then she is just wasting your time.Originally posted by Juan_Man
If a girl says that she doesn't give out her number online, does that mean rejection? A part of me says yes, but another part is hoping that there could be another explanation. What do you think?
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
It's all about qualifying...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Umm, there's five other days in the week. Now, she's busy, no big deal. Did she give you a counter offer? Women who are interested may not always be readily available but they will offer a time that they are if they want to see you.Originally posted by Juan_Man
She just told me she had plans for the whole weekend. Oh well. NEXT!
This girl didn't even counter-offer. To be honest, I'm just looking to get some. This girl is far from a dreamy hot chick, but she a cute girl on the big side but was do-able. I don't want to make myself look any more desperate than I may have already done so. I just told her to have fun. Thanks for the advice though. Much appreciated.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Umm, there's five other days in the week. Now, she's busy, no big deal. Did she give you a counter offer? Women who are interested may not always be readily available but they will offer a time that they are if they want to see you.
This isn't to say that you don't make an offer, but do it the DJ way. Don't just ask if she's free, tell her specifically what you'd like to do and when. She'll either counter with a day that she's available or make an excuse as to why she can't. Either way, you now know what you should do.
Then set your sights on another target; you should usually have a few in the pipeline. Don't dwell on the past, it'll hold you back. Just learn something from the experience, make your adjustments, and then move on.Originally posted by Juan_Man
This girl didn't even counter-offer. To be honest, I'm just looking to get some. This girl is far from a dreamy hot chick, but she a cute girl on the big side but was do-able. I don't want to make myself look any more desperate than I may have already done so. I just told her to have fun. Thanks for the advice though. Much appreciated.