"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Think about it, a woman will give you her telephone number just to get rid of you; face it, it happens. Her IL has little to do with whether she gives you her number.
Now if she agrees to meet you somewhere, that is a definite indicator of a relatively high interest level. Yeah, she could just want a free meal but you have control over where you go and what you do. If she insists on dinner, guess what type of girl she is. It's all about qualifying...
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A-FVCKIN'-MEN! The end result is what's important.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Umm, there's five other days in the week. Now, she's busy, no big deal. Did she give you a counter offer? Women who are interested may not always be readily available but they will offer a time that they are if they want to see you.
This isn't to say that you don't make an offer, but do it the DJ way. Don't just ask if she's free, tell her specifically what you'd like to do and when. She'll either counter with a day that she's available or make an excuse as to why she can't. Either way, you now know what you should do.
This girl didn't even counter-offer. To be honest, I'm just looking to get some. This girl is far from a dreamy hot chick, but she a cute girl on the big side but was do-able. I don't want to make myself look any more desperate than I may have already done so. I just told her to have fun. Thanks for the advice though. Much appreciated.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Then set your sights on another target; you should usually have a few in the pipeline. Don't dwell on the past, it'll hold you back. Just learn something from the experience, make your adjustments, and then move on.
ACT WITH PURPOSE