"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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not getting enough sex from this plate!!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Honestly. You have no interest in this girl so what is the problem? Sounds like she is the only plate you're spinning. Once a month is fine. She's your once a month plate.
 
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Update... so I got a text from this chick this morning, the usual text.. good morning babe...

I messaged her back 5 hours later.. just said.. goodafternoon..

Then she text me back and said, how are you..I messaged back with...

Hi I, m good.. do you wana come down to my place one day this week (for sex offcourse)

So she said, she is penniless this week, has no money.. she will get paid this coming friday, so she would be ok to come down next week..

My reply.. ok thats fine.. altho a friday or saturday would be better for me, due to my work scedhule...


Her reply.. ok will let you know..


I have noticed she does not message me on whatsapp at night anymore.. where as uptill about a week ago, she would message me every night..

But she is online every night.. gut is telling me she could be checking another dude, or ready to branch swing..


But she keeps sending me the odd text message during the day.. just a simple, good morning and the odd.. how are you babe.. not much for conversation at all..

Firstly she is low quality girl, defo not long term material

I, m only seeing her, because she has a hot body, and the sex is good..

But we are only banging once a month. . Thats just plain shiit


Anyhow.. if she is pulling away... should I do the same?

I, m not too bothered if I lose this plate, as I know this girl will branch swing at some point, and not even getting much for sex off her..


If I can keep her around, then fair enough. .
 
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sylvester the cat said:
Honestly. You have no interest in this girl so what is the problem? Sounds like she is the only plate you're spinning. Once a month is fine. She's your once a month plate.
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I am banging one other plate.. also have got a second date on friday with another chick... she seems to like me, and could be banging her by the weekend
 
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I think rather than dumping her.. maybe just pulling back is the best option????
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I asked this chick if she wanted to meet up at the weekend... it never happened. ..

Was around a month ago, last time I banged her.. she is texting me less too.. prob banging another dude...

She is still messaging me on whatsapp tho?

Dump her? Or just pull back ?
 
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What is the point of keeping a plate like this, if hardly ever getting any sex off her?
 
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I, m going to drop this chick tomorrow... she keeps sending me pics of herself in sexy underwear... but still no meet with her...


I asked her last week, if she wants to meet... she said she will let me know by the weekend, but she didn't bother getting back to me..

I am sure she is banging another dude.. why keep this plate.. when I am getting no sex off her... she is trying to keep me around as a orbiter... fuk her... I, m gona dropp her ass!!
 
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She sent me a message today.. do I miss her? I just ignored it..

She is making no effort to come meet for sex, she cant be bothered, so why should I be her text buddy... I have no use for this plate
 
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jeez.. you're kind of pyscho, relax.

Yes, she is probably having sex with other dudes. Yes, she has medium to low interest in you. So what?

Besides, why dont you go to her place instead?
Anyway, if you dont like what you're getting just ignore her and you may fvck her once every two months or less, or you focus your energy on another chick who is more into you. No need to obsses this much dude.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dumped her ass today.. I asked her last week if she would like to meet at the weekend.. she said she would let me know ... did she even bother to get back to me?

No she didn't... I, m sure she is keeping me around as a back up, while she is banging other dudes..

Then when she secures this guy.. she will toss me aside..

So I just got rid of her, I have other plates... this girl is low value, and not relationship material...

And I, m not even getting any sex off her.. only once every other month
 
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