"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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not getting enough sex from this plate!!

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Honestly. You have no interest in this girl so what is the problem? Sounds like she is the only plate you're spinning. Once a month is fine. She's your once a month plate.
 

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Update... so I got a text from this chick this morning, the usual text.. good morning babe...

I messaged her back 5 hours later.. just said.. goodafternoon..

Then she text me back and said, how are you..I messaged back with...

Hi I, m good.. do you wana come down to my place one day this week (for sex offcourse)

So she said, she is penniless this week, has no money.. she will get paid this coming friday, so she would be ok to come down next week..

My reply.. ok thats fine.. altho a friday or saturday would be better for me, due to my work scedhule...


Her reply.. ok will let you know..


I have noticed she does not message me on whatsapp at night anymore.. where as uptill about a week ago, she would message me every night..

But she is online every night.. gut is telling me she could be checking another dude, or ready to branch swing..


But she keeps sending me the odd text message during the day.. just a simple, good morning and the odd.. how are you babe.. not much for conversation at all..

Firstly she is low quality girl, defo not long term material

I, m only seeing her, because she has a hot body, and the sex is good..

But we are only banging once a month. . Thats just plain shiit


Anyhow.. if she is pulling away... should I do the same?

I, m not too bothered if I lose this plate, as I know this girl will branch swing at some point, and not even getting much for sex off her..


If I can keep her around, then fair enough. .
 

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sylvester the cat said:
Honestly. You have no interest in this girl so what is the problem? Sounds like she is the only plate you're spinning. Once a month is fine. She's your once a month plate.

I am banging one other plate.. also have got a second date on friday with another chick... she seems to like me, and could be banging her by the weekend
 

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I think rather than dumping her.. maybe just pulling back is the best option????
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I asked this chick if she wanted to meet up at the weekend... it never happened. ..

Was around a month ago, last time I banged her.. she is texting me less too.. prob banging another dude...

She is still messaging me on whatsapp tho?

Dump her? Or just pull back ?
 

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What is the point of keeping a plate like this, if hardly ever getting any sex off her?
 

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I, m going to drop this chick tomorrow... she keeps sending me pics of herself in sexy underwear... but still no meet with her...


I asked her last week, if she wants to meet... she said she will let me know by the weekend, but she didn't bother getting back to me..

I am sure she is banging another dude.. why keep this plate.. when I am getting no sex off her... she is trying to keep me around as a orbiter... fuk her... I, m gona dropp her ass!!
 

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She sent me a message today.. do I miss her? I just ignored it..

She is making no effort to come meet for sex, she cant be bothered, so why should I be her text buddy... I have no use for this plate
 

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jeez.. you're kind of pyscho, relax.

Yes, she is probably having sex with other dudes. Yes, she has medium to low interest in you. So what?

Besides, why dont you go to her place instead?
Anyway, if you dont like what you're getting just ignore her and you may fvck her once every two months or less, or you focus your energy on another chick who is more into you. No need to obsses this much dude.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I dumped her ass today.. I asked her last week if she would like to meet at the weekend.. she said she would let me know ... did she even bother to get back to me?

No she didn't... I, m sure she is keeping me around as a back up, while she is banging other dudes..

Then when she secures this guy.. she will toss me aside..

So I just got rid of her, I have other plates... this girl is low value, and not relationship material...

And I, m not even getting any sex off her.. only once every other month
 
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