"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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not gettin a kiss after the 1st date

guayaballer

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if u dunt get a kiss on da 1st date doesnt dat mean u failed? because u showed her ur value and everything and it still wasnt enoughso wouldnt dat mean she would say no to a second date?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't think it means you failed and I don't think it means there is no second date.

Don't dwell on the kiss, rather, dwell on the second date and if its going to happen.

I say if she doesn't kiss you on the second date then it shouldn't be as bad because she did come on a second date, and that means she shows some interest in you.
 

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If you shoot a basketball and miss then youre a terrible basketball player??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Only slut gives kiss on 1st date.
There's a fallicy in your arguement. Dont be so quick to generalize...either way, whats your point?
 

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never aim for getting a kiss on a first date unless the girl is named something something Hilton or Spears, actually screw it bring a condom in that case :D
 

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She did not kiss you so you are woryed she does not like you! Yet you are the man, you are suposed to initiate the kiss. She is probably 10 times more woried that you do not like her!
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Only slut gives kiss on 1st date.
I dont think so... It all depends on the amount of attraction you create on her.
I really dont want to brag, but when i first read the 10 Bridges of relationship by DeAngelo, i got "obssesed" with it so i used it right away on a date. The girl was HB9, 18 years old (i was 16), virgin, shy, etc.
She ended up on my room getting "de-virginized".
I was her 1st bf and i know for sure that i was last one, too.

I ussually dont call that girl again if i dont kiss her on a 1st date. I call it failure on creating attraction :)D thanx God this is not happening anymore)
Anyway sometimes there are girls that are worth of calling 'em again, but only in times when u r lookin for a LTR girl (DONT).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MetalFortress

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Originally posted by MightyMate
And what is Your point? Go cry to Your mummy kid. You must be either retarded or dumb as hell if You dont understand what im writing.
Of course I understand it, but it's still horrid, as is almost every single point you make. Stop trolling.
 

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If You wanna LTR with girls who kiss on first date - free way. You wanna divorce alot yeah? Anyways You are young so You dont know what You are speaking about. You are just horny now and know nothing.
 

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No worries, as long as you were kinda into kino/being sexual/manly. If you were just talking and no kino or anything and that's why it didn't escalate to a kiss, try again, then give it a next for best results.

And you don't "get" a kiss, you initiate it, BE A MAN! :D

Kissing isn't everything, though.
:woo:
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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