"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Not Genuine" Windows XP?

Bonhomme

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This is amazing. Windows XP did an update on my laptop, which produced a notification that my software is "not genuine." It never did this before.

I'd heard something to this effect from another person, who ended up dropping a lot of money to "correct the situation."

I'm not biting. Why would software that is not genuine direct somebody to an update that tells them it's not genuine? How low can Microsoft go?

Anybody else experience this kind of nonsense?

Next computer for me will defintely be a Mac or have Linux.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Le Parisien

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I don't know what kind of computer you have, desktop/laptop?
Or how you got it, bought it fresh new or second hand?
Or whether it had "public exposure", meaning anybody could take a look at the Microsoft sticker on the PC and steal your license number.

Basically when it this happens: it means one of the two things

- You license number/license key was a forged one, the little business who sold you the machine charged you but didn't actually sell you a valid key. The equivalent of a forged concert ticket or train ticket if it's easier to understand.

- Or you have a valid key, but it has been copied/stolen by many other random people so all the guys who never paid for it are using the same key, your key. Microsoft detected it, and declared the key invalid.

Many times it's not even your fault. For example, a lot of public access computers (like at public libraries or university compuses) have their license number exposed in daylight on the PC itself, on the microsoft license sticker. Any "smart" can just copy it and install a pirated version of Windows at home with that number.
 

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Bonhomme said:
I'm not biting. Why would software that is not genuine direct somebody to an update that tells them it's not genuine? How low can Microsoft go?
Windows doesn't know that it's an illegal version, so it acts like it would if it were legal, and automatically downloads the updates Microsoft tells it to.

I wouldn't really call protecting their profits from piracy low. There are a million things I hate about the company, but you can't fault them for that.
 

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Thanks for the replies. It's a refurbished Dell laptop that does have an apparently original tag on it.

Actually, my brother gave me the scoop on this. Often, if enough of the hardware is changed, it gets flagged as a "new computer" when it is updated. I'll see what happens when I call the manufacturer.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I seen that update recently too.
You should have just not installed that update.It gives you a choice of what you want updated & installed.
I hate automatic update so I turned mine off.
 

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Bonhomme said:
Thanks for the replies. It's a refurbished Dell laptop that does have an apparently original tag on it.
This explains everything.
I knew it, I knew it must be a second hand PC.

Basically the guy/organization sold you the laptop but they kept using the license key for their new PC. Or maybe the refurbish contract never stated that Windows comes standard on it.
 

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As long as it lets you keep getting security updates, ignor it.

Red Hat Linux, Fedora. Costs nothing monitarily, but will make you use your noodle a little.

I support 300 WinXP machines and 40 or so 2000 and 2003 servers. I'm a true-blue Novell/Linux devotee.

Linux WILL inherit the Earth.
 

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Bonhomme said:
Thanks for the replies. It's a refurbished Dell laptop that does have an apparently original tag on it.

Actually, my brother gave me the scoop on this. Often, if enough of the hardware is changed, it gets flagged as a "new computer" when it is updated. I'll see what happens when I call the manufacturer.
Someone must have updated your PC without you knowing about it, or it was set to update automatically. On my computer, the windows ADIVSED me about this. Before the update, it said that if my version was illegal I´d have those minor "problems", altought I wouldn´t be punished by using an illegal program; considering it´s just for home use. If you use illegal softwares in any company then you´re playing with fire.

What is refurbished? Is it something like "remanufactured"?
 
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