"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not every girl will be dating material. Not every girl will be friendship material. Not every girl will be material.

I urge you fellows, when you go on a date don't expect anything. Goto have fun and nothing more. Don't go thinking this is the next puzzy you are getting, go in as if it was just another date. Have fun... Don't feel the need to kiss her at the end of the date, or the 2nd or the 3rd.

Walk in there with the intention of meeting someone new.

That is all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good post, i agree 100%
 
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do girls think that way? I hope so.... a lot seem to be like "he didn't make a move," or "there was no action"
 
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This was a mispost guys, wouldn't let me delete it.
 
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I disagree with part of your post. I believe it's important, as the man, to make the first move and take the lead 100% of the time. I can see when what you're saying might help someone be less stressed out about going on a date, but keep in mind, you have to be the aggressor regardless.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are confusing 2 things.

Yeah you have to act, you have to take charge, you have to control and so on. But that's not what my post is telling you to do or not to do.

I'm saying before you automatically enter your "I gotta DJ this chick and get her in bed with me tonight" mindset, you should see who she is. Women are not all *****es, sluts *****s and whatnot. There are alot of quality women out there that are more suited to being your next bestfriend than girlfriend. Look at it this way:

You're a general on the battlefield and you need to take out their archers. You need knights to move in fast so you take minimal losses. You arn't going to send footmen against them because the footmen would get decimated before they would get there.

Stop employing footmen because you lack knights.
 
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my style goes that i get to know the girl casually first in order to know if she's qualified to even become any type of material. this means, saying hello. hanging out with some friends. it gives you a hint first of how things will be if you're with her. then when you finally do go "out", u know what to at least expect.
 
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