"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not every girl will be dating material. Not every girl will be friendship material. Not every girl will be material.

I urge you fellows, when you go on a date don't expect anything. Goto have fun and nothing more. Don't go thinking this is the next puzzy you are getting, go in as if it was just another date. Have fun... Don't feel the need to kiss her at the end of the date, or the 2nd or the 3rd.

Walk in there with the intention of meeting someone new.

That is all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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Good post, i agree 100%
 
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do girls think that way? I hope so.... a lot seem to be like "he didn't make a move," or "there was no action"
 
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This was a mispost guys, wouldn't let me delete it.
 
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I disagree with part of your post. I believe it's important, as the man, to make the first move and take the lead 100% of the time. I can see when what you're saying might help someone be less stressed out about going on a date, but keep in mind, you have to be the aggressor regardless.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You are confusing 2 things.

Yeah you have to act, you have to take charge, you have to control and so on. But that's not what my post is telling you to do or not to do.

I'm saying before you automatically enter your "I gotta DJ this chick and get her in bed with me tonight" mindset, you should see who she is. Women are not all *****es, sluts *****s and whatnot. There are alot of quality women out there that are more suited to being your next bestfriend than girlfriend. Look at it this way:

You're a general on the battlefield and you need to take out their archers. You need knights to move in fast so you take minimal losses. You arn't going to send footmen against them because the footmen would get decimated before they would get there.

Stop employing footmen because you lack knights.
 
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my style goes that i get to know the girl casually first in order to know if she's qualified to even become any type of material. this means, saying hello. hanging out with some friends. it gives you a hint first of how things will be if you're with her. then when you finally do go "out", u know what to at least expect.
 
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