"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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not driving is driving me crazy (get it?)

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so many times, if i couldve driven to a girls house, i could get pusssy. honestly, i can think of three girls who would give me head right now if i drove over. i've read its just an excuse for yourself, but not being able to drive is killing my game. its pathetic really that i have to wait ten months after my bday (grounded from it...dont fail algebra, kiddos!).

anyways, to those djs that do drive...howd you get around things (get around! i'm on a roll!) like not driving before you got your license?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You are making excuses for your failure. It's a poor one.

I don't drive. Therefore I either get a bus, train, taxi, or walk. It's rather simple.

If a girl only cares about you driving, she isn't worth being with.
 
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aftershock said:
You are making excuses for your failure. It's a poor one.

I don't drive. Therefore I either get a bus, train, taxi, or walk. It's rather simple.

If a girl only cares about you driving, she isn't worth being with.
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Exactly. Quit *****ing and get a ride.
 
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I don't drive. Therefore I either get a bus, train, taxi, or walk. It's rather simple.
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You probably don't live in hick-town like a lot of people do. Where I live you usually live 5-10 miles away from the chick you want to be with, there are no taxis or buses, and you usually are ****ed when you can't drive. That being said I never use the fact I can't get a ride somewhere as an excuse, I believe in making solutions instead of excuses.

Edit: Also the US has a horrible public transport system compaired to the UK and england..
 
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its not KILLING my game but it is def holding me back and i know exactly how you feel dan. ive got 7 months to go and im going out of my mind. how can you say its an excuse??? theres nothing you can do. sure most of the time you can get a ride but NOT ALWAYS. we dont live in a perfect world. it would be a lot more convenient if i had a car. me and my friend were gonna go to a club tonight. we were all set, except for the fact he wasnt sure if hed be able to borrow his moms car. turns out im sitting here typing this instead of grindin with some chicks. what can ya do??? i bet its easy to say its an excuse when youre the one driving;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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exactly!

i hate to make excuses, and i always want to improve my game, but its really a problem. even if you get a ride...its not jsut the two of you, and you cant park and jump in the backseat exactly. europe is less auto populated, and many people dont get them to they're older (or so i was told by my europe loving teacher). public transport is usually kinda nasty and cabs are rare around here and probably expensive...anyone got any fresh ideas?
 
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dannowillbookem said:
...anyone got any fresh ideas?
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I want to ride my bi-cy-cle, I want to ride my bike,
I want to ride my bi-cy-cle, I want to ride it where I like...
 
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what ever happened to walking places?

i feel like some old nursing home geezer these days when i read the threads because none of you seem to walk anywhere.
no offense, its just how we got around fifteen years ago.
 
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Hate to break it to you but now days walking is out. Now I enjoy a good walk just as much as anyone else but when you live 10 miles away from someone and the place you want to go to is 15 miles away it's just impratical unless your planning to incorperate camping out on the side of a road as part of your date. Where I live some houses are as far as 1/2 miles apart. Walking might have been fine in the 1930s but now days the world moves a lot faster.
 
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aftershock said:
I want to ride my bi-cy-cle, I want to ride my bike,
I want to ride my bi-cy-cle, I want to ride it where I like...
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IS this queen (Freddy Mercury)?? Couse i sounds like the song called my bicycle!:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what ever happened to walking places?

i feel like some old nursing home geezer these days when i read the threads because none of you seem to walk anywhere.
no offense, its just how we got around fifteen years ago.
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I guess its better to have a bike!!!!!!
 
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Walk :) THUG.
People survived before cars.
 
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