I have been talking to this girl and I am sure she lost Interst in me Because every time I call her she says she will call back in 10 min and never did this has only happend twice and It pisses me off I know not to call back but when/if she calls me back do I ignore the call or tell her that is bothers me when she says she will call an doesnt HELP!!!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Not Calling Back
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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how often do you call her?
How often do you see her weekly?
If answer one > 2 and you see her > 3 then it's too much.
Why do I say that, because I don't see my friend for a week and I phone 2-3 times to compensate. (also, because we are REALLY Close friends)
In your case..it sounds like she's new in your life, cut calls completely I'd say
Give and take system
Hang up = No call
Windering = C&F
How often do you see her weekly?
If answer one > 2 and you see her > 3 then it's too much.
Why do I say that, because I don't see my friend for a week and I phone 2-3 times to compensate. (also, because we are REALLY Close friends)
In your case..it sounds like she's new in your life, cut calls completely I'd say
Give and take system
Hang up = No call
Windering = C&F
SHE WANTS TO PLAY GAMES, WELL PLAY FVCKING GAMES!!!
When she say she'll call back, just say "ok"
When she call's back then tell her that you'll call back,and the just HANG UP<--they love this!!!
Or whenever you talk just say you''lll call back but don't.
Or you can get mad at her when she calls back for calling a day/hour late, etc.<--they'll try to fix it up (needy) so your not mad anymore.
When she say she'll call back, just say "ok"
When she call's back then tell her that you'll call back,and the just HANG UP<--they love this!!!
Or whenever you talk just say you''lll call back but don't.
Or you can get mad at her when she calls back for calling a day/hour late, etc.<--they'll try to fix it up (needy) so your not mad anymore.
The girl has got game, buddy. She has you wrapped around her finger like string. Time for you to put some "DJ" into your game. The next time she calls, ignore the phone. If she keeps calling, keep ignoring the phone. You have to show her that she isn't the center of your attention. Don't get pissed off about this situation. Just work on how available you'll be to her. On a ratio bases, I'd say for every 3 or 4 times she calls, only answer once. One exception to that rule though. If she calls you 4 times in 10 minutes, ignore all the calls in that time period and call her either that night or within the next 2 days. By doing that, it'll create mystery in her and subconciously, she'll know that you aren't wrapped around her finger. Therefore, she'll see you as challenging.
Great thanks 4 the help I am gonna practice this on her.
My plan is to take this hot chick I know but only "FRIENDS" with to the football game fri When she ask's who the girl is I will tell her its my G/f LOL... thanks DJ's
My plan is to take this hot chick I know but only "FRIENDS" with to the football game fri When she ask's who the girl is I will tell her its my G/f LOL... thanks DJ's
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She just called me today I talked for maybe 30 sec to her and said I would call her back in 10 min and of Course never did!!! I figure once she sees me fri with another girl she will get the point. man this web site rules LOL