I have been talking to this girl and I am sure she lost Interst in me Because every time I call her she says she will call back in 10 min and never did this has only happend twice and It pisses me off I know not to call back but when/if she calls me back do I ignore the call or tell her that is bothers me when she says she will call an doesnt HELP!!!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Not Calling Back
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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how often do you call her?
How often do you see her weekly?
If answer one > 2 and you see her > 3 then it's too much.
Why do I say that, because I don't see my friend for a week and I phone 2-3 times to compensate. (also, because we are REALLY Close friends)
In your case..it sounds like she's new in your life, cut calls completely I'd say
Give and take system
Hang up = No call
Windering = C&F
How often do you see her weekly?
If answer one > 2 and you see her > 3 then it's too much.
Why do I say that, because I don't see my friend for a week and I phone 2-3 times to compensate. (also, because we are REALLY Close friends)
In your case..it sounds like she's new in your life, cut calls completely I'd say
Give and take system
Hang up = No call
Windering = C&F
SHE WANTS TO PLAY GAMES, WELL PLAY FVCKING GAMES!!!
When she say she'll call back, just say "ok"
When she call's back then tell her that you'll call back,and the just HANG UP<--they love this!!!
Or whenever you talk just say you''lll call back but don't.
Or you can get mad at her when she calls back for calling a day/hour late, etc.<--they'll try to fix it up (needy) so your not mad anymore.
When she say she'll call back, just say "ok"
When she call's back then tell her that you'll call back,and the just HANG UP<--they love this!!!
Or whenever you talk just say you''lll call back but don't.
Or you can get mad at her when she calls back for calling a day/hour late, etc.<--they'll try to fix it up (needy) so your not mad anymore.
The girl has got game, buddy. She has you wrapped around her finger like string. Time for you to put some "DJ" into your game. The next time she calls, ignore the phone. If she keeps calling, keep ignoring the phone. You have to show her that she isn't the center of your attention. Don't get pissed off about this situation. Just work on how available you'll be to her. On a ratio bases, I'd say for every 3 or 4 times she calls, only answer once. One exception to that rule though. If she calls you 4 times in 10 minutes, ignore all the calls in that time period and call her either that night or within the next 2 days. By doing that, it'll create mystery in her and subconciously, she'll know that you aren't wrapped around her finger. Therefore, she'll see you as challenging.
Great thanks 4 the help I am gonna practice this on her.
My plan is to take this hot chick I know but only "FRIENDS" with to the football game fri When she ask's who the girl is I will tell her its my G/f LOL... thanks DJ's
My plan is to take this hot chick I know but only "FRIENDS" with to the football game fri When she ask's who the girl is I will tell her its my G/f LOL... thanks DJ's
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She just called me today I talked for maybe 30 sec to her and said I would call her back in 10 min and of Course never did!!! I figure once she sees me fri with another girl she will get the point. man this web site rules LOL