"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Not Calling Back

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I have been talking to this girl and I am sure she lost Interst in me Because every time I call her she says she will call back in 10 min and never did this has only happend twice and It pisses me off I know not to call back but when/if she calls me back do I ignore the call or tell her that is bothers me when she says she will call an doesnt HELP!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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how often do you call her?
How often do you see her weekly?

If answer one > 2 and you see her > 3 then it's too much.

Why do I say that, because I don't see my friend for a week and I phone 2-3 times to compensate. (also, because we are REALLY Close friends)

In your case..it sounds like she's new in your life, cut calls completely I'd say ;)

Give and take system :)
Hang up = No call
Windering = C&F
 

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SHE WANTS TO PLAY GAMES, WELL PLAY FVCKING GAMES!!!

When she say she'll call back, just say "ok"

When she call's back then tell her that you'll call back,and the just HANG UP<--they love this!!!

Or whenever you talk just say you''lll call back but don't.

Or you can get mad at her when she calls back for calling a day/hour late, etc.<--they'll try to fix it up (needy) so your not mad anymore.
 

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The girl has got game, buddy. She has you wrapped around her finger like string. Time for you to put some "DJ" into your game. The next time she calls, ignore the phone. If she keeps calling, keep ignoring the phone. You have to show her that she isn't the center of your attention. Don't get pissed off about this situation. Just work on how available you'll be to her. On a ratio bases, I'd say for every 3 or 4 times she calls, only answer once. One exception to that rule though. If she calls you 4 times in 10 minutes, ignore all the calls in that time period and call her either that night or within the next 2 days. By doing that, it'll create mystery in her and subconciously, she'll know that you aren't wrapped around her finger. Therefore, she'll see you as challenging.:cool:
 

zx2not4u

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Great thanks 4 the help I am gonna practice this on her.

My plan is to take this hot chick I know but only "FRIENDS" with to the football game fri When she ask's who the girl is I will tell her its my G/f LOL... thanks DJ's
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zx2not4u

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She just called me today I talked for maybe 30 sec to her and said I would call her back in 10 min and of Course never did!!! I figure once she sees me fri with another girl she will get the point. man this web site rules LOL
 
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