"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HHloser2

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Well this past Thursday this girl and I went on a date(To movies :p ) Well anyway after that when I dropped her off, I started applying the Kino and kissed her. She told me to call her. Which I did the next day. She did not answer. I didnt think much of it, I called her up again yesturday with my new cellphone and she answered but quickly told me she would call me back She did not. Now Im thinking this is one of those BS tests and now Im thinking of not calling at all and wait for her to call me. What do ya think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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immrtlwun

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Well, since you did get the kiss, she's obviously interested, so it's not a question of lack of interest. So, I think that she's testing. So wait for her to call, unless it's more than a week. I'd call after a week just to keep yourself in her mind, if not she might forget about you.
 

HHloser2

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Yes that was I was thinking. Not calling until she calls or at least not until late this coming week. Thanks
 

Jerky Boi

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Yea, don't next year or anything drastic. Wait things out, but don't call her again. Let her call. The hardest part is already over man. :D
 

S-lemond

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all that need to be said....is that jerky knows what hes talking bout!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HHloser2

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Hey I know what to do. But when she does call do I ask why she didnt call or answer? or just act like it did not happen?
 

immrtlwun

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Don't give her crap about it on the phone, because she can't see that you're joking and she might take it personally. When you see her in person next time bust on her for it, but make sure she knows that you're only joking.
 

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Dude, why the fvck do you even care!? You should stop worrying over this one chick, go find another, have fun, and get teh fvck over this one.

If she's interested, she WILL call, DO NOT
call her again.

If she's not interested enough to call you, she's not worth your time.
 

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As always:D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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