"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well this past Thursday this girl and I went on a date(To movies :p ) Well anyway after that when I dropped her off, I started applying the Kino and kissed her. She told me to call her. Which I did the next day. She did not answer. I didnt think much of it, I called her up again yesturday with my new cellphone and she answered but quickly told me she would call me back She did not. Now Im thinking this is one of those BS tests and now Im thinking of not calling at all and wait for her to call me. What do ya think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, since you did get the kiss, she's obviously interested, so it's not a question of lack of interest. So, I think that she's testing. So wait for her to call, unless it's more than a week. I'd call after a week just to keep yourself in her mind, if not she might forget about you.
 
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Yes that was I was thinking. Not calling until she calls or at least not until late this coming week. Thanks
 
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Yea, don't next year or anything drastic. Wait things out, but don't call her again. Let her call. The hardest part is already over man. :D
 
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all that need to be said....is that jerky knows what hes talking bout!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey I know what to do. But when she does call do I ask why she didnt call or answer? or just act like it did not happen?
 
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Don't give her crap about it on the phone, because she can't see that you're joking and she might take it personally. When you see her in person next time bust on her for it, but make sure she knows that you're only joking.
 
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Dude, why the fvck do you even care!? You should stop worrying over this one chick, go find another, have fun, and get teh fvck over this one.

If she's interested, she WILL call, DO NOT
call her again.

If she's not interested enough to call you, she's not worth your time.
 
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As always:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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