"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not answering her question backfired.

timmylivingalie

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I responded to an older chics personal ad and she anwered back and asked my age. I responded that I was somewhere between 30 and 40. She answered back that she didnt have time for games and if I wouldnt even tell her my age she wouldnt talk to me anymore. David Deangelo and Mystery both talk about making a woman guess your age. What happened here?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desdinova

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That answer wasn't in her best interest. If you don't want to tell your age, just tell her something like "My age doesn't make me more or less interesting, so why don't we meet up and you can base me on my personality instead of a number?"
 

Stagger Lee

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First, I would forget everything DD and Mystery have said. They are just marketers. As far as anyone has been able to verify, their success with women is no better or worse than an average guy with no "game" statistically. Besides, the idea was more about in person such as at a bar when a younger girl asks your age with the idea that she was screening you as being too old.

Your situation was in text/internet where everything has to be toned downed so as not be misinterpreted. Plus she was an older chick so no reason to assume she was screening you as being too old.
 

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timmylivingalie said:
I responded to an older chics personal ad and she anwered back and asked my age. I responded that I was somewhere between 30 and 40. She answered back that she didnt have time for games and if I wouldnt even tell her my age she wouldnt talk to me anymore. David Deangelo and Mystery both talk about making a woman guess your age. What happened here?
What happened here? Who knows, brother?

I just tossed a coin twice and it turned out Tails, Tails
wasn't it supposed to be Tails and Heads according to theory?

√
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_large_numbers
 

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Yep, don't be so serious when asked that question. Keep it light and playful.
Still, she sounds like a ball cutting cuuuunt.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Playing around and lightly teasing is GREAT when they like you.

It's wasting time when they don't like you or are figuring it out.
 

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Give her three ages...

One to represent chronological age,
One to represent your libido,
One to represent your status or maturity.

Pick them so she can puzzle out which fits which with about a 75% certainty.

Even is she comes back ****y and funny mixing up your libido and status, you got her!

SH
 

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timmylivingalie said:
I responded to an older chics personal ad

an older chics

older
This was your mistake. Older women really don't go well for game, especially online. It's serious business to them. Younger girls who are playful and fun respond well to the mystery & DD stuff (at least they used to). They enjoy the game.

My best older woman game is acting just as serious as she is and then ruining it later by letting her see how immature I am. :p
 

The Gambler

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Warrior74 said:
This was your mistake. Older women really don't go well for game, especially online. It's serious business to them. Younger girls who are playful and fun respond well to the mystery & DD stuff (at least they used to). They enjoy the game.

My best older woman game is acting just as serious as she is and then ruining it later by letting her see how immature I am. :p
True, true, TRUE!

A simple but huge revelation about how older women think. They've heard just about all of it before, so its nearly impossible to dazzle 'em with a short line or two. With that being said, show them that you've got your sh!t together and you'll have a great ol' time...

The Gambler
 
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