Not a Game
Don Juan
Wsup everybody and welcome to my Boot Camp X.
You're probably wondering a couple of things...
1. Who the **** are you?
2. What's Boot Camp X?
Well, let me address these questions.
DISCLAIMER: This thread is intended to be a personal journal to chart my progress, and to hopefully provide motivation for others to change their lives. Although entries in this Boot Camp X won't be long, this introduction might be quite lengthy. I'll try to keep it as concise as possible.
WHO THE **** ARE YOU ALREADY?
Alright already, shiet! I'm Not a Game. I've been lurking around these boards for quite a while. I had a different screen name, but it was similar to another dude's name, so I changed.
My status is RAFC (Recovering AFC). I'm somewhere between there and a DJ. I have the potential to become a DJ (as does any and everyone I believe) but have a good amount of self-improvement to do. I have read a lot from these boards and learned a lot, but my weekness lies in lack of DOING. Hence, the Boot Camp X.
I'm 23 and live in the Bay Area. I recently graduated college and moved back home w/ the parents (ALRIGHT! ). I've had 4 gf's (2 long term and 2 short term), and have had fukked 7 girls (the 4 gf's and 3 ONS). 2 of my gf's were HB's, the other 2 were decent looking. All 3 of the ONS were decent looking but nothing great.
Good Qualities
Looks
I'm a pretty good looking guy, a 7.5 - 8. Let's break this down.
Face
-No major acne.
-Nice eyes (girls say my best feature)
-Good face structure, good jawline, good cheeks
-Great smile, good teeth
-Clean buzzcut hair style. Fits me well.
Body
-About 5'11 - 6'
-Naturally muscular body. Good chest, shoulders, basically good upper body.
-Great, confident posture.
Clothes
-A couple of really nice shirts that fit me well.
-A couple of trendy jeans.
-Good sense of style.
-A few cool accessories. Leather bracelet, earrings, rings, chain.
Social Skills
-Have a smooth, sexy voice.
-Can be pretty funny. Humor comes a bit easy for me.
-Can dance well, and not TOO shy to approach chicks on the dance floor.
-Have a few good friends that I can go out with.
Car
-Black Bimma
Internal
-Have a strong desire to reach my potential. A stronger desire than anyone else I know of, aside from ppl on this board.
-Read materials daily to improve myself. (Bible, DJ Bible, DJ Tips, Psychocybernetics, The Feeling Good Handbook)
-Stronger and stronger mentally each day.
Life
-Have a college degree from a good university.
-Have a well paying job in SF with a lot of room to grow.
-Going to go to law school next year, currently studying for LSATs.
-Have some great friends.
-Found a great church in the Bay, which was a struggle for a while.
-Doing a lot of self improvement and working out fairly consistently.
Bad Qualities
Looks
Face
-Have some small acne and some discoloration from past acne problems.
-Some fat on face that could be lost to overall weight loss.
-Hair might be thinning a little, will have to hit up some Propecia.
Body
-Need to lose some fat. Problem area lies in thighs and waist. Got a sixpack that I know is ready to come out!
-Need to gain some muscle on the upper body to really stand out (Get the .7 waist to upper body ratio going)
Clothes
-Definitely could use some better clothes.
-Need a few more shirts that are more tailored for my body.
-Pants, shoes, definitely a lot of work to do, and money to spend!
Social Skills
-BIGGEST PROBLEM
-Eye contact, humor, smiling, confidence, fun demeanor. I need help in all of it. I've spent so much of my time working on my looks but very little on my social skills. Although I've had some moderate success, I know that my lack of social skills is what is holding me back from a much better life. Lack of social skills are my WEAKEST LINK.
Car
-Needs to be serviced before I **** with the outside.
-Outside needs rims, lowered, tinted, paint, spoiler.
-Inside needs system.
Internal
-Suffer from some depression due to self-esteem issues. I thought self-esteem was some elementary school bull**** concept that didn't really exist, but it is VERY real and must be dealt with. I've sought counseling and have taken measures to help, bought some of the best books I could find, but I have much work to do. I'm hoping the Boot Camp X will boost my self-esteem.
-Even though I have a large drive and big vision, I need to keep more consistent with my self-improvement.
Life
-Could definitely use a better relationship with God and my family. Relationships right now aren't too supportive or intimate.
-Need to move out and get my own bachelor pad.
-Got a LOT of LSAT studying to do in two months.
-Need to work out more consistently.
So that's a summation of me. Well, as good of a summation I could make off the top of my head right now. It gives me (us ) a good starting point to improve from.
SO WHAT'S BOOT CAMP X?
Allow me a minute of your time to tell you a quick story.
I've been pretty hardcore into self-improvement for about a month now. I've been very into becoming as good looking as possible, concerned about working out and my diet.
But then something happened...
A friend of mine took me to this great church in the Bay Area. The location is great and the church itself is beautiful. The staff is very motivated and does a great job at services.
My friend introduced me to some people he knew, a married couple. I shook their hands, then I buckled up with anxiety. I could barely get a word out and made the situation weird, when it should have been friendly. I felt embarassed for being so shy.
Then it hit me, although I have plenty of areas in my life that need work, my socials skills are REALLY lagging. And we all know the strongest quality a DJ has is strong social skills.
I knew I had to quit reading posts on this board and books from Barnes and Noble and actually go out there and change myself. It would be the only way I could reach my goals.
BOOT CAMP X
A DJ doesn't just improve one area in his life, he improve all important areas.
Boot Camp X is a modification of the original Boot Camp, personalized for me. The original Boot Camp will be a subset of what I'm going to be doing for the next 2-3 months.
My personal Boot Camp X consists of
-Social/mental improvement from the Boot Camp and some DJB and DJ Tips posts
-Physical improvement from DIESEL'S Guide to Cutting Up and acne medication
-Emotional/mental improvement from Psychocybernetics and The Feeling Good Handbook
-Spiritual improvement from religion.
-Also I am studying for LSATS.
I know not everyone here is religious and that's fine. I hope that we can all be respectful.
So, Not a Game's Boot Camp X in detail is:
-The original Boot Camp
-Weightlifting 4 days a week
-Cardio 3 days a week
-Eating 6 times a day
-Weekly church services
-Bible reading 15-30 min a day (on the way to work)
-Psychocybernetics 15-30 min a day
-Feeling Good Handbook 15 min a day
-LSAT studying 30-45 min a day.
So there you have it. It's going to be a lot of work I know. I'm sure some might doubt it's even possible. This past week I've been doing most of these activities each day, so it is possible. You just have to work hard and work smart.
Going to the club tonight. First post is tomorrow.
You're probably wondering a couple of things...
1. Who the **** are you?
2. What's Boot Camp X?
Well, let me address these questions.
DISCLAIMER: This thread is intended to be a personal journal to chart my progress, and to hopefully provide motivation for others to change their lives. Although entries in this Boot Camp X won't be long, this introduction might be quite lengthy. I'll try to keep it as concise as possible.
WHO THE **** ARE YOU ALREADY?
Alright already, shiet! I'm Not a Game. I've been lurking around these boards for quite a while. I had a different screen name, but it was similar to another dude's name, so I changed.
My status is RAFC (Recovering AFC). I'm somewhere between there and a DJ. I have the potential to become a DJ (as does any and everyone I believe) but have a good amount of self-improvement to do. I have read a lot from these boards and learned a lot, but my weekness lies in lack of DOING. Hence, the Boot Camp X.
I'm 23 and live in the Bay Area. I recently graduated college and moved back home w/ the parents (ALRIGHT! ). I've had 4 gf's (2 long term and 2 short term), and have had fukked 7 girls (the 4 gf's and 3 ONS). 2 of my gf's were HB's, the other 2 were decent looking. All 3 of the ONS were decent looking but nothing great.
Good Qualities
Looks
I'm a pretty good looking guy, a 7.5 - 8. Let's break this down.
Face
-No major acne.
-Nice eyes (girls say my best feature)
-Good face structure, good jawline, good cheeks
-Great smile, good teeth
-Clean buzzcut hair style. Fits me well.
Body
-About 5'11 - 6'
-Naturally muscular body. Good chest, shoulders, basically good upper body.
-Great, confident posture.
Clothes
-A couple of really nice shirts that fit me well.
-A couple of trendy jeans.
-Good sense of style.
-A few cool accessories. Leather bracelet, earrings, rings, chain.
Social Skills
-Have a smooth, sexy voice.
-Can be pretty funny. Humor comes a bit easy for me.
-Can dance well, and not TOO shy to approach chicks on the dance floor.
-Have a few good friends that I can go out with.
Car
-Black Bimma
Internal
-Have a strong desire to reach my potential. A stronger desire than anyone else I know of, aside from ppl on this board.
-Read materials daily to improve myself. (Bible, DJ Bible, DJ Tips, Psychocybernetics, The Feeling Good Handbook)
-Stronger and stronger mentally each day.
Life
-Have a college degree from a good university.
-Have a well paying job in SF with a lot of room to grow.
-Going to go to law school next year, currently studying for LSATs.
-Have some great friends.
-Found a great church in the Bay, which was a struggle for a while.
-Doing a lot of self improvement and working out fairly consistently.
Bad Qualities
Looks
Face
-Have some small acne and some discoloration from past acne problems.
-Some fat on face that could be lost to overall weight loss.
-Hair might be thinning a little, will have to hit up some Propecia.
Body
-Need to lose some fat. Problem area lies in thighs and waist. Got a sixpack that I know is ready to come out!
-Need to gain some muscle on the upper body to really stand out (Get the .7 waist to upper body ratio going)
Clothes
-Definitely could use some better clothes.
-Need a few more shirts that are more tailored for my body.
-Pants, shoes, definitely a lot of work to do, and money to spend!
Social Skills
-BIGGEST PROBLEM
-Eye contact, humor, smiling, confidence, fun demeanor. I need help in all of it. I've spent so much of my time working on my looks but very little on my social skills. Although I've had some moderate success, I know that my lack of social skills is what is holding me back from a much better life. Lack of social skills are my WEAKEST LINK.
Car
-Needs to be serviced before I **** with the outside.
-Outside needs rims, lowered, tinted, paint, spoiler.
-Inside needs system.
Internal
-Suffer from some depression due to self-esteem issues. I thought self-esteem was some elementary school bull**** concept that didn't really exist, but it is VERY real and must be dealt with. I've sought counseling and have taken measures to help, bought some of the best books I could find, but I have much work to do. I'm hoping the Boot Camp X will boost my self-esteem.
-Even though I have a large drive and big vision, I need to keep more consistent with my self-improvement.
Life
-Could definitely use a better relationship with God and my family. Relationships right now aren't too supportive or intimate.
-Need to move out and get my own bachelor pad.
-Got a LOT of LSAT studying to do in two months.
-Need to work out more consistently.
So that's a summation of me. Well, as good of a summation I could make off the top of my head right now. It gives me (us ) a good starting point to improve from.
SO WHAT'S BOOT CAMP X?
Allow me a minute of your time to tell you a quick story.
I've been pretty hardcore into self-improvement for about a month now. I've been very into becoming as good looking as possible, concerned about working out and my diet.
But then something happened...
A friend of mine took me to this great church in the Bay Area. The location is great and the church itself is beautiful. The staff is very motivated and does a great job at services.
My friend introduced me to some people he knew, a married couple. I shook their hands, then I buckled up with anxiety. I could barely get a word out and made the situation weird, when it should have been friendly. I felt embarassed for being so shy.
Then it hit me, although I have plenty of areas in my life that need work, my socials skills are REALLY lagging. And we all know the strongest quality a DJ has is strong social skills.
I knew I had to quit reading posts on this board and books from Barnes and Noble and actually go out there and change myself. It would be the only way I could reach my goals.
BOOT CAMP X
A DJ doesn't just improve one area in his life, he improve all important areas.
Boot Camp X is a modification of the original Boot Camp, personalized for me. The original Boot Camp will be a subset of what I'm going to be doing for the next 2-3 months.
My personal Boot Camp X consists of
-Social/mental improvement from the Boot Camp and some DJB and DJ Tips posts
-Physical improvement from DIESEL'S Guide to Cutting Up and acne medication
-Emotional/mental improvement from Psychocybernetics and The Feeling Good Handbook
-Spiritual improvement from religion.
-Also I am studying for LSATS.
I know not everyone here is religious and that's fine. I hope that we can all be respectful.
So, Not a Game's Boot Camp X in detail is:
-The original Boot Camp
-Weightlifting 4 days a week
-Cardio 3 days a week
-Eating 6 times a day
-Weekly church services
-Bible reading 15-30 min a day (on the way to work)
-Psychocybernetics 15-30 min a day
-Feeling Good Handbook 15 min a day
-LSAT studying 30-45 min a day.
So there you have it. It's going to be a lot of work I know. I'm sure some might doubt it's even possible. This past week I've been doing most of these activities each day, so it is possible. You just have to work hard and work smart.
Going to the club tonight. First post is tomorrow.