"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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not a dj yet --- crying on the inside

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djmac

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hello djs.

I put a post up a while back proclaiming to be a dj. Apparently I was way off base. I was getting all kinds of girls, and I'm still getting phone numbers, but come to find out when I have feelings and they SUCK.

I was going to call one of the girls on my list to tell her what's up, but this seems to be a much safer place, considering I could possibly get better advice and I won't get a reputation in my hometown for being a whinny a$$. And I have to get this out of my head.

I've been dating this girl for a coupla weeks now, and we went out to the bar last night. Things were going good, she was telling her friends that things were going great between us. I did things right all the way to the end then I fkd up bigtime.

We sang, we played darts, and I pulled it out and she gave me a handjob in the bar. Then we get back to her house, and I asked if she had a good time. Then my drunken stupid a$$ started over analyzing, and I started saying some really dumb sht, like --- why aren't you smiling?, why are you sitting way over there.

Anyhow she said I was being annoying and asked me to leave. I can't blame her one bit. I don't like the fact that I totally went chump on her, but I had been drinking for about 9 hrs. and it so happened my sappy side decided to pay a visit.

I want to go over there and talk things out, but I do know better than that. My mind is trying to rationalize going over there, with things like it would be spontaneous, but if I did that she would probably think she was the prize.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Infamous_Wolf

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I don't think anyone here is really a Don Juan. Every here seems to see it as a status to be obtained, to brag about. Don Juan is not a status, it is an entire *life style*. The DJ doesn't need any praise for his conquests, but he learns from his failures. take this lesson wtih you and make sure you don't let it happen again. the true DJ doesn't want or need for one girl, because a true DJ doesn't need any girl. If you are not breaking through with this girl, there is a point where you should cut your losses and run. Don't worry about it dude. **** happens. move on.
 
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Cry For Love

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Once it becomes a part of your true personality, there is no urge to brag. The urge only exists as long as it is something new and amazing.

No need to let your head down. Its a long process of change and what at first seem like amazing portions of progress, are really small steps.
 
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stonetowers

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DJ'ing is not about or never has been about perfection, only improvment and can truly only come from experince
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wodan

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True, dont worry too much m8, your young by the sound of things and will be well above the average guys your age after a while of learning and applying stuff from here :)
 
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