"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Northern-Western European women dig Mediterranean or Latin looking men...ooh year!

mahon83050

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Hey all,

I believe the theory of opposites attract holds true. I am Italian looking with Dark brown hair and dark (almost black eyes) and I seem to get more looks from the blondes or fair haired-skinned light eyed types than I do from other types of girls.

Anyone else have this happen to them. Do any blonde haired-light eyed guys get the same attention from Mediterranean/Latin women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Socialreject

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Blonds dig me...

But i don't dig blonds :s

I dig redheads... and not many seem to share my taste...lucky me!
 

italostud

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I have the dark features as well. I used to think the same way you do. I used to seem to end up dating only blondes. But since then, I've dated and banged just about every different colored girl in the world, so I don't really believe it anymore.

There's been a few scientific studies on this subject. Google them.
 

Jay-X

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i have dark hair and blue eyes, but i don't seem to attract blondes with dark eyes... now that i think about it, i've met just one so far and she was extremely attracted:D

anyway, i dig blondes with green/blue eyes
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Deep Dish

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Originally posted by mahon83050
Hey all,

I believe the theory of opposites attract holds true. I am Italian looking with Dark brown hair and dark (almost black eyes) and I seem to get more looks from the blondes or fair haired-skinned light eyed types than I do from other types of girls.

Anyone else have this happen to them. Do any blonde haired-light eyed guys get the same attention from Mediterranean/Latin women.
I am light skinned with black hair and I get the best attention from... brunettes.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Does this mean you're not getting that chin plastic surgery you wanted?
 

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I dont know i sort of agree to an extent with the poster on this. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and usually its some brunette with brown/green eyes that gives me several glances. I think it just has to do with a lot of people want what they dont have u know? That being said, my girlfriend has blonde hair/green eyes and i love her but i do tend to have a preference for black hair/green eyes.
 
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