"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Northern-Western European women dig Mediterranean or Latin looking men...ooh year!

mahon83050

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Hey all,

I believe the theory of opposites attract holds true. I am Italian looking with Dark brown hair and dark (almost black eyes) and I seem to get more looks from the blondes or fair haired-skinned light eyed types than I do from other types of girls.

Anyone else have this happen to them. Do any blonde haired-light eyed guys get the same attention from Mediterranean/Latin women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Socialreject

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Blonds dig me...

But i don't dig blonds :s

I dig redheads... and not many seem to share my taste...lucky me!
 

italostud

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I have the dark features as well. I used to think the same way you do. I used to seem to end up dating only blondes. But since then, I've dated and banged just about every different colored girl in the world, so I don't really believe it anymore.

There's been a few scientific studies on this subject. Google them.
 

Jay-X

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i have dark hair and blue eyes, but i don't seem to attract blondes with dark eyes... now that i think about it, i've met just one so far and she was extremely attracted:D

anyway, i dig blondes with green/blue eyes
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deep Dish

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Originally posted by mahon83050
Hey all,

I believe the theory of opposites attract holds true. I am Italian looking with Dark brown hair and dark (almost black eyes) and I seem to get more looks from the blondes or fair haired-skinned light eyed types than I do from other types of girls.

Anyone else have this happen to them. Do any blonde haired-light eyed guys get the same attention from Mediterranean/Latin women.
I am light skinned with black hair and I get the best attention from... brunettes.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Does this mean you're not getting that chin plastic surgery you wanted?
 

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I dont know i sort of agree to an extent with the poster on this. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and usually its some brunette with brown/green eyes that gives me several glances. I think it just has to do with a lot of people want what they dont have u know? That being said, my girlfriend has blonde hair/green eyes and i love her but i do tend to have a preference for black hair/green eyes.
 
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