"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Northern-Western European women dig Mediterranean or Latin looking men...ooh year!

mahon83050

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Hey all,

I believe the theory of opposites attract holds true. I am Italian looking with Dark brown hair and dark (almost black eyes) and I seem to get more looks from the blondes or fair haired-skinned light eyed types than I do from other types of girls.

Anyone else have this happen to them. Do any blonde haired-light eyed guys get the same attention from Mediterranean/Latin women.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Socialreject

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Blonds dig me...

But i don't dig blonds :s

I dig redheads... and not many seem to share my taste...lucky me!
 

italostud

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I have the dark features as well. I used to think the same way you do. I used to seem to end up dating only blondes. But since then, I've dated and banged just about every different colored girl in the world, so I don't really believe it anymore.

There's been a few scientific studies on this subject. Google them.
 

Jay-X

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i have dark hair and blue eyes, but i don't seem to attract blondes with dark eyes... now that i think about it, i've met just one so far and she was extremely attracted:D

anyway, i dig blondes with green/blue eyes
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by mahon83050
Hey all,

I believe the theory of opposites attract holds true. I am Italian looking with Dark brown hair and dark (almost black eyes) and I seem to get more looks from the blondes or fair haired-skinned light eyed types than I do from other types of girls.

Anyone else have this happen to them. Do any blonde haired-light eyed guys get the same attention from Mediterranean/Latin women.
I am light skinned with black hair and I get the best attention from... brunettes.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Does this mean you're not getting that chin plastic surgery you wanted?
 

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I dont know i sort of agree to an extent with the poster on this. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and usually its some brunette with brown/green eyes that gives me several glances. I think it just has to do with a lot of people want what they dont have u know? That being said, my girlfriend has blonde hair/green eyes and i love her but i do tend to have a preference for black hair/green eyes.
 
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