"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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North West guys!!!

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This leads from the UK DJS post......

saw a couple of you guys from north west....

ok...so here is the deal.....

i m from manchester.........I m 18 but look 20.....n i go university

How many of you r interested in hooking up in the new year or anytime to go djing together....

i have read many posts of you guys not having enuff descent friends!!!!

well here is our chance guys...lets go out a day or anytime n rock the north west!!

trust me guys...i have hooked up with guitar_whizz a few times and it helps a lot especially if u got fear!!! i have done some really crazy stuff with him!!!! just cos he pushed me!!


what do u says huh?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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+ everybody leave your msn hotmail addy...so we can have a chat on msn and see how things go!!!


mine is

[email protected]

feel free to add me or email me!!!
 
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I've added you. I'm in Manchester from Today until Friday, and then spend a week or so at uni for NY. I'll be coming back to Manchester for a week or so in January (from 4th to 11th, something like that..)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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