"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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North West guys!!!

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shandoli

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This leads from the UK DJS post......

saw a couple of you guys from north west....

ok...so here is the deal.....

i m from manchester.........I m 18 but look 20.....n i go university

How many of you r interested in hooking up in the new year or anytime to go djing together....

i have read many posts of you guys not having enuff descent friends!!!!

well here is our chance guys...lets go out a day or anytime n rock the north west!!

trust me guys...i have hooked up with guitar_whizz a few times and it helps a lot especially if u got fear!!! i have done some really crazy stuff with him!!!! just cos he pushed me!!


what do u says huh?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

S

shandoli

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+ everybody leave your msn hotmail addy...so we can have a chat on msn and see how things go!!!


mine is

[email protected]

feel free to add me or email me!!!
 
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I've added you. I'm in Manchester from Today until Friday, and then spend a week or so at uni for NY. I'll be coming back to Manchester for a week or so in January (from 4th to 11th, something like that..)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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