"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Normal to feel like this?

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So I've been seeing this girl for almost 3 months. We're not bf/gf yet. It was her birthday this past weekend so I surprised her with a 'birthday cake with 'Frozen' plates and (her favorite animated movie). That was 3 days ago and I already miss her. I even sent her a text saying that I missed her.

Is it normal to miss someone that you've just seen only a few days before? Especially if they're not someone you've known for a long time?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Never tell them you miss them. Thats a turnoff. They want to imagine you are out slaying dragons or leading a rebel army.. not sitting with a teddy bear thinking of them. Thats what they are suppose to do. You need to distance yourself from her until you get control over your feelings about her ...
 
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No it not normal.

I agree with @cola never say you miss her, or only say it indirectly.

For example:
She is in vacation and sends you a selfie of her new dress
you anwer: "Nice dress. can't wait to see you without it"

Be careful, you sounds very attached, it wont end good. when she come back don't do anything too special and don't look too exited, you need to make up for your neediness.
 
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