"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Normal to feel like this?

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So I've been seeing this girl for almost 3 months. We're not bf/gf yet. It was her birthday this past weekend so I surprised her with a 'birthday cake with 'Frozen' plates and (her favorite animated movie). That was 3 days ago and I already miss her. I even sent her a text saying that I missed her.

Is it normal to miss someone that you've just seen only a few days before? Especially if they're not someone you've known for a long time?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never tell them you miss them. Thats a turnoff. They want to imagine you are out slaying dragons or leading a rebel army.. not sitting with a teddy bear thinking of them. Thats what they are suppose to do. You need to distance yourself from her until you get control over your feelings about her ...
 
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No it not normal.

I agree with @cola never say you miss her, or only say it indirectly.

For example:
She is in vacation and sends you a selfie of her new dress
you anwer: "Nice dress. can't wait to see you without it"

Be careful, you sounds very attached, it wont end good. when she come back don't do anything too special and don't look too exited, you need to make up for your neediness.
 
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