"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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normal oats, rolled oats, oats, oats and more oats.

int3l

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Okay so i've eaten 'normal' oats you mix with milk and microwave for 2 minutes to give you the porridge like stuff but recently saw someone mix oats in with his protein shake. Was just wondering if i could do that with the oats i have atm? does it not matter whether or not i 'cook' the oats?

edit: cause mine are big, round and flat i was thinking of blending them with the protein powder + water. that sound alright? i won't die from not microwaving the oats will i?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I-tallionStallion

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No you won't die haha but you may gag on the oats since they are big. Get some sort of Quick oats. They are made smaller so they cook faster and thus won't turn into huge chunks in your protein shake that make you gag.
 

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unless you find truly raw oats (which are rare, because they go rancid quickly), uncooked oats are fine to eat -- they're steamed to prevent spoilage (this also prevents them from sprouting). for example, lots of 'multigrain' breads are sprinkled with some uncooked oats for texture & appearance.

the only difference between steel-cut, rolled, instant, and other types of oats is how much they've been machined. no matter what type you pick, a blender will make short work of them, so there's little difference between putting steel-cut, rolled or quick oats in a blender (for making shakes, avoid 'instant' oats that are full of hard-to-pronounce ingredients). pick the cheapest by weight, or whatever you would use for other purposes.

if shaking your mix by hand, the stallion is right, go for quick oats that will blend better & more quickly.
 

int3l

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Awesome information. And i'll be shoving some of those oats into a blender + protein powder + water to make my shake so i guess i don't need quick oats. However, if i ever see any on the market i'll get them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you go Mo-town!
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