"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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normal oats, rolled oats, oats, oats and more oats.

int3l

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Okay so i've eaten 'normal' oats you mix with milk and microwave for 2 minutes to give you the porridge like stuff but recently saw someone mix oats in with his protein shake. Was just wondering if i could do that with the oats i have atm? does it not matter whether or not i 'cook' the oats?

edit: cause mine are big, round and flat i was thinking of blending them with the protein powder + water. that sound alright? i won't die from not microwaving the oats will i?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I-tallionStallion

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No you won't die haha but you may gag on the oats since they are big. Get some sort of Quick oats. They are made smaller so they cook faster and thus won't turn into huge chunks in your protein shake that make you gag.
 

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unless you find truly raw oats (which are rare, because they go rancid quickly), uncooked oats are fine to eat -- they're steamed to prevent spoilage (this also prevents them from sprouting). for example, lots of 'multigrain' breads are sprinkled with some uncooked oats for texture & appearance.

the only difference between steel-cut, rolled, instant, and other types of oats is how much they've been machined. no matter what type you pick, a blender will make short work of them, so there's little difference between putting steel-cut, rolled or quick oats in a blender (for making shakes, avoid 'instant' oats that are full of hard-to-pronounce ingredients). pick the cheapest by weight, or whatever you would use for other purposes.

if shaking your mix by hand, the stallion is right, go for quick oats that will blend better & more quickly.
 

int3l

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Awesome information. And i'll be shoving some of those oats into a blender + protein powder + water to make my shake so i guess i don't need quick oats. However, if i ever see any on the market i'll get them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you go Mo-town!
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