"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Normal American or white girl practice?

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Hello, I am an exchange student from Tanzania (Africa) going to college in Maryland U.S.A. I am black, and as you can imagine coming from my part of the world all of my past experiences have been with black women of my country.

Recently I went to Spring Break in FL and had my first experience with a white women. The whole experience was amazing, but about hallf way through the sex, she trys to stick her finger in my azz. I moved her hand away, and a few minutes later she tried to do it again. I was confused but didnt let her do it.

Two nights ago I ended up hooking up with another white girl from my school (oral sex only). Durning the middle of her doing oral to me, she reached around and started trying to do as the other girl in FL had tried. Again, I stopped thios girl from doing that.

Since my only two experiences since comming to America have only been with white women, I was wondering. Is this normal practice in AMerica, or is it something white girls like to do?

I understand different cultures and practices exist in different countries.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hahahahahahaha.
sorry mate really made me chuckle then.
never been with a girl like that my self but know a few people who have. think your just pickin all the freeky, nasty, ass poking ones.
 
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Out of my experiences with white women, I have only had this experience with one girl. She was a complete freak, though. This is not a practice in America so don't worry about it. I can't believe that happened to you twice. You'll be ok!!!
 
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I think that they think that you are a kinky foreign black dude so whatever goes. Because I've never heard or experienced this before, and to have it happen to you twice is just kind of funny and bizarre.
 
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Both girls were very good looking. What you call HB 9's on here

Glad to here it isnt common practice, as I have 3.5 more years here and hope to be with many more women during my stay here. I must say I like the variety you have here in America. Only Black women in my country.

My mission is to experience as many races as possible, but I must say I am really liking the white women (minus the but poking)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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:cheer: Welcome to America, land of the freaks and home of the depraved. :cheer:
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:cheer: Welcome to America, land of the freaks and home of the depraved. :cheer:
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Just wait until you encounter the FWG's (Fat white girls). They crave black ****.:crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am well aware of where the male G spot is claimed to be, however I am not interested in anyone finding mine (even a beautiful women). I am from another country, not of a different species. We have an education system also.

As for Blackmm....I have gotten much attention from white girls that I find very attractive, so no need to go with fat ones.

The two I was with, plus 2 or 3 more that i think I have a good chance with.

Blackmm, I assume you are a black man also......do you have much luck with white women here in the USA?
 
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Taz, I am a black guy born and bred here in the US, and raised on white girls. Of my 21 conquests 16 have been white girls. (3 Latinas and 2 black)

First off welcome to the US.

All that being said, I have experience as a black guy with white women, no it isnt a white girl or american thing, you just met some freaky women.......

Now, I do find white women tend to be a bit freakier, not sure if that is across the board or just the ones I have been with. Not gonna jump to any conclusions here, but it might just be that girls that are willing to cross the color line are just willing to experiment more in general,

Either way girls always love the new guy in town, so I am sure you will do wonderful here with the ladies,....seems your off to a good start.
 
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I think what you're experiencing are girls feeling free to be freaky, since they're away from their home turf, partying, drinking and banging some dude of another race and from another country.

Either that or they're looking for some way to hang on while they ride you.
 
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Blackmm said:
Just wait until you encounter the FWG's (Fat white girls). They crave black ****.:crackup:
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Oh why did you have to bring that up, it was going to be a surprise!!!! :cuss:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just knew those Towson U. girls were freaky!
 
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Texas born and raised baby. White chicks seem t0 dig this black guy :cool:
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What do you think of Houston as a place to live man?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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