"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Normal American or white girl practice?

TanzaniaMan

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Hello, I am an exchange student from Tanzania (Africa) going to college in Maryland U.S.A. I am black, and as you can imagine coming from my part of the world all of my past experiences have been with black women of my country.

Recently I went to Spring Break in FL and had my first experience with a white women. The whole experience was amazing, but about hallf way through the sex, she trys to stick her finger in my azz. I moved her hand away, and a few minutes later she tried to do it again. I was confused but didnt let her do it.

Two nights ago I ended up hooking up with another white girl from my school (oral sex only). Durning the middle of her doing oral to me, she reached around and started trying to do as the other girl in FL had tried. Again, I stopped thios girl from doing that.

Since my only two experiences since comming to America have only been with white women, I was wondering. Is this normal practice in AMerica, or is it something white girls like to do?

I understand different cultures and practices exist in different countries.

Thank you for the information
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hahahahahahaha.
sorry mate really made me chuckle then.
never been with a girl like that my self but know a few people who have. think your just pickin all the freeky, nasty, ass poking ones.
 

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Out of my experiences with white women, I have only had this experience with one girl. She was a complete freak, though. This is not a practice in America so don't worry about it. I can't believe that happened to you twice. You'll be ok!!!
 

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I think that they think that you are a kinky foreign black dude so whatever goes. Because I've never heard or experienced this before, and to have it happen to you twice is just kind of funny and bizarre.
 

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Both girls were very good looking. What you call HB 9's on here

Glad to here it isnt common practice, as I have 3.5 more years here and hope to be with many more women during my stay here. I must say I like the variety you have here in America. Only Black women in my country.

My mission is to experience as many races as possible, but I must say I am really liking the white women (minus the but poking)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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:cheer: Welcome to America, land of the freaks and home of the depraved. :cheer:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:cheer: Welcome to America, land of the freaks and home of the depraved. :cheer:
Just wait until you encounter the FWG's (Fat white girls). They crave black ****.:crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TanzaniaMan

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I am well aware of where the male G spot is claimed to be, however I am not interested in anyone finding mine (even a beautiful women). I am from another country, not of a different species. We have an education system also.

As for Blackmm....I have gotten much attention from white girls that I find very attractive, so no need to go with fat ones.

The two I was with, plus 2 or 3 more that i think I have a good chance with.

Blackmm, I assume you are a black man also......do you have much luck with white women here in the USA?
 

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Taz, I am a black guy born and bred here in the US, and raised on white girls. Of my 21 conquests 16 have been white girls. (3 Latinas and 2 black)

First off welcome to the US.

All that being said, I have experience as a black guy with white women, no it isnt a white girl or american thing, you just met some freaky women.......

Now, I do find white women tend to be a bit freakier, not sure if that is across the board or just the ones I have been with. Not gonna jump to any conclusions here, but it might just be that girls that are willing to cross the color line are just willing to experiment more in general,

Either way girls always love the new guy in town, so I am sure you will do wonderful here with the ladies,....seems your off to a good start.
 

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I think what you're experiencing are girls feeling free to be freaky, since they're away from their home turf, partying, drinking and banging some dude of another race and from another country.

Either that or they're looking for some way to hang on while they ride you.
 

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Blackmm said:
Just wait until you encounter the FWG's (Fat white girls). They crave black ****.:crackup:
Oh why did you have to bring that up, it was going to be a surprise!!!! :cuss:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just knew those Towson U. girls were freaky!
 

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Alphamale1821 said:
Texas born and raised baby. White chicks seem t0 dig this black guy :cool:
What do you think of Houston as a place to live man?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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