"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Noob question: Is this a sign of interest?

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There's this girl in whom I used to be very "into her" (meaning I was an AFC ***** over her) during this winter. A little before summer started (early may) I realized that, thanks to this site, I was acting like a total AFC and that I had no shot with her (according to the way she acted with me). SO! I stopped talking to her completely to rule her out of my life.

We talked maybe twice, briefly, on MSN, during the whole summer and I also saw her twice while I was working and twice with other friends but I didn't tlak to her much. However, all of a sudden in 3 days she talks to me 5 times on msn when she never did that before at all. I plan on asking her out on a date, maybe go to a local, small zoo. I don't really expect anything to come out of it except some practice at dating, but anyways, I was wondering, could the sudden attention she's giving me be a clue that maybe she has some interest for me? :confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shivastorm_88 said:
I was wondering, could the sudden attention she's giving me be a clue that maybe she has some interest for me? :confused:
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No sure way of knowing, but who cares? Just use the sudden attention she's giving you as a clue that you need to invite her to get together with you, PRONTO!!!! ASAP! NOW!

Regardless of what she means by her sudden attention, she will stop soon, and you will have ZERO CHANCE, if you don't act now!
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
No sure way of knowing, but who cares? Just use the sudden attention she's giving you as a clue that you need to invite her to get together with you, PRONTO!!!! ASAP! NOW!

Regardless of what she means by her sudden attention, she will stop soon, and you will have ZERO CHANCE, if you don't act now!
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Good point... I'm busy this weekend, and working during the day on weekdays, but I will try for it next weekend for sure :D
 
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