"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Noob question: Is this a sign of interest?

Shivastorm_88

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There's this girl in whom I used to be very "into her" (meaning I was an AFC ***** over her) during this winter. A little before summer started (early may) I realized that, thanks to this site, I was acting like a total AFC and that I had no shot with her (according to the way she acted with me). SO! I stopped talking to her completely to rule her out of my life.

We talked maybe twice, briefly, on MSN, during the whole summer and I also saw her twice while I was working and twice with other friends but I didn't tlak to her much. However, all of a sudden in 3 days she talks to me 5 times on msn when she never did that before at all. I plan on asking her out on a date, maybe go to a local, small zoo. I don't really expect anything to come out of it except some practice at dating, but anyways, I was wondering, could the sudden attention she's giving me be a clue that maybe she has some interest for me? :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Shivastorm_88 said:
I was wondering, could the sudden attention she's giving me be a clue that maybe she has some interest for me? :confused:

No sure way of knowing, but who cares? Just use the sudden attention she's giving you as a clue that you need to invite her to get together with you, PRONTO!!!! ASAP! NOW!

Regardless of what she means by her sudden attention, she will stop soon, and you will have ZERO CHANCE, if you don't act now!
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
No sure way of knowing, but who cares? Just use the sudden attention she's giving you as a clue that you need to invite her to get together with you, PRONTO!!!! ASAP! NOW!

Regardless of what she means by her sudden attention, she will stop soon, and you will have ZERO CHANCE, if you don't act now!
Good point... I'm busy this weekend, and working during the day on weekdays, but I will try for it next weekend for sure :D
 
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