Lil Magic
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Do you guys know any way to put on mass and muscle while losing fat without using weights at all? Any routine at all?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mintxx said:the absolute minimum you need is a bench, a 60kg sandbag and an overhead bar.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gymnasts don't train with weights at all?Kerpal said:You can gain muscle without using weights, just look at gymnasts.
Well, I think that's pretty useless as far as the OP wants, since I get the impression he just wants to do pushups and pullups in his house or something. If you've got access to gymanstics rings, you probably have access to weights too.Kerpal said:
yeah but the process is a lot slower correct? would it not be better for him to focus on one at a time?Warboss Alex said:the short answer is no.
eminence, you can definitely lose fat and gain muscle at the same time (thus maintaining your weight)
Yes, it is a slow process, but if you are patient then it works very well.eminence said:yeah but the process is a lot slower correct? would it not be better for him to focus on one at a time?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
yeah but you do have to have tools don't you? when I say bench, sandbag and overhead bar, I mean a park bench or any raised surface, a tree limb or any high grippable overhang, and any object with an axis of symmetry that you can pick up. Fewer tools than that and no - imagination and desire won't do it without tools.AlexTheGreat said:no, the absolute minimum is imagination and desire. If you want something bad enough you'll do what you must to get to it, even if your tools aren't that fantastic.
mintxx said:yeah but you do have to have tools don't you? when I say bench, sandbag and overhead bar, I mean a park bench or any raised surface, a tree limb or any high grippable overhang, and any object with an axis of symmetry that you can pick up. Fewer tools than that and no - imagination and desire won't do it without tools.
but for the love of God LM, get to a gym and learn to love it...
Basicly, the reason your muscles will grow is because it has two choises. Either the muscle tear under the weight, or adapt and grow stronger/bigger. That is the reason why you wont get big on bodyweight only type of programs. Too light weight. Works maby a month?Lil Magic said:Do you guys know any way to put on mass and muscle while losing fat without using weights at all? Any routine at all?
*hides the donuts and poses accordingly*fireguy said:Or you can spend the nezt 2-5 years to reach an addonese greek body (like wabross alex)
eminence said:you can't put on mass and lose fat...it doesn't work that way. sounds to me like your lazy and looking for an easy way out.
You have either 2 choices....get cut up and lose muscle, or gain some mass and gain muscle along with it. And without weights...? did you seriously just ask that?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Riegs said:This isn't true at all, it's possible to gain mass and lose fat at the same time. You need to give yourself a surplus of about 300-500 calories on the days you train. On the days you don't train, put yourself at about 300 below your basal metabolic rate and throw in some HIIT cardio.
You'll gain muscle mass a bit slower, but you'll lose fat. Also make sure your diet is very clean. Google "nutritional timing"