"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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non-stop txt mssged me, did i do alright by replying?

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Anyway for a date recap all went well, we went skating. we did exchange #s. Anyway i told her i'd call her when i left.
We sort of agreed to meet up this tues during breaks. So her IL is like in the 90% range.

Anyway yesterday (monday night) she sends me a text mssge saying how her butt is toned from skating and asking how i was around (11;30 pm). I thought i'd reply in the morning.

ok 1:30 am, she blasts another repeat of her previous txt mssg.
i thought nothing of it and went back to trying to sleep.
4 a.m. phone sounds again, since i couldnt sleep i checked it again. Same repeat of txt mssge with a new one saying thx to me for convincing her to go skating.

Ok i thought, she was persistent and probably stayed up the whole night waiting for a reply from me (and she has class this mmorning).

So it's 4 a.m. and i decided...hell why wait till morning!
my mssg: Veron, cant sleep? I had fun skating w/u. I'll talk more w/u tomorrow. Do try to get some sleep : )

Thats' the end of the mssages. Now waking up and reflecting on my mssge i sent....
it sounds like an attempt to brush her off and to stop annoying me.

Anyway im gonna txt her again in a little while saying..."mmm...toned butt! cant wait to see it :O~~"
And possibly meet her during the break and inquire what time she slept, to show that i cared about her sleep and not that i thought she was annoying.

what do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Shoulda told her to come over or leave you alone until morning.

You may have just blown off a booty call. If that's what you meant to do, fine. It sounds like she's interested enough to wait until YOU'RE ready. :p
 

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Originally posted by solo1


ok 1:30 am, she blasts another repeat of her previous txt mssg.
i thought nothing of it and went back to trying to sleep.
4 a.m. phone sounds again, since i couldnt sleep i checked it again. Same repeat of txt mssge with a new one saying thx to me for convincing her to go skating.
Are you sure those weren't duplicates from the network? I sometimes get txt msgs 2 or 3 times when they were only sent once.
 

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That's how I got together with one of my ex-s. We were texting throughout a whole night, then got it on a few days later.

Don't worry about texting girls, just as long as you're not the one being persistent.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: non-stop txt mssged me, did i do alright by replying?

Originally posted by mrRuckus
Are you sure those weren't duplicates from the network? I sometimes get txt msgs 2 or 3 times when they were only sent once.
I spoke to her about that since she inquired why i texted her 4 a.m. in the morning. And it truly wree duplicates. Now she assumes im the one that couldnt sleep since i texted back.

anyway i ended up texting the part about toned butt..nothing happened but she suggested to meet up after class.

Which leads to my other post..
 
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