"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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non-stop txt mssged me, did i do alright by replying?

solo1

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Anyway for a date recap all went well, we went skating. we did exchange #s. Anyway i told her i'd call her when i left.
We sort of agreed to meet up this tues during breaks. So her IL is like in the 90% range.

Anyway yesterday (monday night) she sends me a text mssge saying how her butt is toned from skating and asking how i was around (11;30 pm). I thought i'd reply in the morning.

ok 1:30 am, she blasts another repeat of her previous txt mssg.
i thought nothing of it and went back to trying to sleep.
4 a.m. phone sounds again, since i couldnt sleep i checked it again. Same repeat of txt mssge with a new one saying thx to me for convincing her to go skating.

Ok i thought, she was persistent and probably stayed up the whole night waiting for a reply from me (and she has class this mmorning).

So it's 4 a.m. and i decided...hell why wait till morning!
my mssg: Veron, cant sleep? I had fun skating w/u. I'll talk more w/u tomorrow. Do try to get some sleep : )

Thats' the end of the mssages. Now waking up and reflecting on my mssge i sent....
it sounds like an attempt to brush her off and to stop annoying me.

Anyway im gonna txt her again in a little while saying..."mmm...toned butt! cant wait to see it :O~~"
And possibly meet her during the break and inquire what time she slept, to show that i cared about her sleep and not that i thought she was annoying.

what do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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squirrels

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Shoulda told her to come over or leave you alone until morning.

You may have just blown off a booty call. If that's what you meant to do, fine. It sounds like she's interested enough to wait until YOU'RE ready. :p
 

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Originally posted by solo1


ok 1:30 am, she blasts another repeat of her previous txt mssg.
i thought nothing of it and went back to trying to sleep.
4 a.m. phone sounds again, since i couldnt sleep i checked it again. Same repeat of txt mssge with a new one saying thx to me for convincing her to go skating.
Are you sure those weren't duplicates from the network? I sometimes get txt msgs 2 or 3 times when they were only sent once.
 

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That's how I got together with one of my ex-s. We were texting throughout a whole night, then got it on a few days later.

Don't worry about texting girls, just as long as you're not the one being persistent.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Re: Re: non-stop txt mssged me, did i do alright by replying?

Originally posted by mrRuckus
Are you sure those weren't duplicates from the network? I sometimes get txt msgs 2 or 3 times when they were only sent once.
I spoke to her about that since she inquired why i texted her 4 a.m. in the morning. And it truly wree duplicates. Now she assumes im the one that couldnt sleep since i texted back.

anyway i ended up texting the part about toned butt..nothing happened but she suggested to meet up after class.

Which leads to my other post..
 
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