I have heard about two kinds of celibacy. Or in plain words, no sex until you get married.
One, is religious, and has bases on religion.
The other, is because that makes them a better catch? Which I don't completely understand because I haven't heard about it in depth. So I won't criticize it for I don't understand it fully. If some of you know about this please explain.
But, I have a third theory. And it's pretty simple I think.
If you are looking for a LTR. You want to have sex with the hottest woman, right? Or the one next to being the hottest, or the one next to that, or, or, or, until you get down to the wild boar hehe.
But, in the LTR mindset, yes you do look for the hottest one, but you can lose focus, and look for sex, and that can blind you from being with someone who truly is worth it.
Most relationships, you take out the sex in it, and you are left with no relationship at all.
And you'll surely say, something like this "but if you value yourself as a DJ with other options, you can't have this issue". Probably. But if you are really in a mono-relationship, you can sink and sink into that world, in a way.
And, there is the sexual transmutation stuff. While you work on your life objectives, your art, and concentrate on it, you meanwhile don't settle for anything but the best.
And, I just thought of this. My personal theory is that sex can ... damage, wome (and men in that case). Because a woman who has had sex and enjoys it for the sex, not for the feelings etc, stops looking at you as a man, and starts looking at you as a sex machine, as someone who can bring her sexual pleasure, not soul pleasure. Catch my drift?
Ok, and, if you look for a fit woman, you should be fit, right? If you look for a woman with culture, you should be cultured, etc etc.
So, if you look for a woman who takes care of her femininity/purity, etc, you should too? I'm guessing this last point is the basis of the second theory I've heard about, right?
Did I explain myself? Hope so,
One, is religious, and has bases on religion.
The other, is because that makes them a better catch? Which I don't completely understand because I haven't heard about it in depth. So I won't criticize it for I don't understand it fully. If some of you know about this please explain.
But, I have a third theory. And it's pretty simple I think.
If you are looking for a LTR. You want to have sex with the hottest woman, right? Or the one next to being the hottest, or the one next to that, or, or, or, until you get down to the wild boar hehe.
But, in the LTR mindset, yes you do look for the hottest one, but you can lose focus, and look for sex, and that can blind you from being with someone who truly is worth it.
Most relationships, you take out the sex in it, and you are left with no relationship at all.
And you'll surely say, something like this "but if you value yourself as a DJ with other options, you can't have this issue". Probably. But if you are really in a mono-relationship, you can sink and sink into that world, in a way.
And, there is the sexual transmutation stuff. While you work on your life objectives, your art, and concentrate on it, you meanwhile don't settle for anything but the best.
And, I just thought of this. My personal theory is that sex can ... damage, wome (and men in that case). Because a woman who has had sex and enjoys it for the sex, not for the feelings etc, stops looking at you as a man, and starts looking at you as a sex machine, as someone who can bring her sexual pleasure, not soul pleasure. Catch my drift?
Ok, and, if you look for a fit woman, you should be fit, right? If you look for a woman with culture, you should be cultured, etc etc.
So, if you look for a woman who takes care of her femininity/purity, etc, you should too? I'm guessing this last point is the basis of the second theory I've heard about, right?
Did I explain myself? Hope so,