"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Non-Photogenic

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Im not sure why but in real life i look all good, and ****. However in photos i look like ****. I duno what it is but something makes me look bad in 98% of photos however when im looking in the mirror i look good. how does this work :(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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http://www.truemirror.com/

Maybe you just look better reversed and aren't used to seeing yourself the real way.

I just remembered some post about this a while back ago. I think I look different in pictures too. Not horrible, but different.
 

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kinda like when you talk in person and talk on the phone. (for other people too) some people sound much different on phone (sometimes worse) than in person.

judge actions done by the heart than by appearance/words.
 

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Is what i look like in real life how i look in photos ? Or in mirrors :/. In photos my face looks like totally different in a bad way.
 

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Get a digicam and get 200 pic of yourself from all the different angles. Then learn to pose for the camera.

takes about 3 hours and suddently you become photogenic. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LOL, ive gone threw like 30 photos and i look like ****, my slight acne and mpretty white skin doesnt help. I also have a bit of a big head i think :eek:
 

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Try a video recorder. nothing else can be trusted. be prepared though;)
 

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Photos and mirrors are two-dimentional. However, mirrors differ from photos because the image reflected is actually in visual stereo. In a mirror each of your eyes see different angle of the reflection. Your mind then combines those two perspectives into one forming the final image. Photograph captures just one angle of perception.
 

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No they're not, because most people have two eyes. Unless the people whom you show the photos are one eyed :) Go see those IMAX movies you'll see what I mean. Stereo perception feels real because that's how we percieve the world. With stereo vision your depth perception is exponentially better. That's why reflections in mirrors feels real because they reflect stereo image. Photograph is a perception of what a one eyed person would see.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you want to see what you "truly" look like, you could just use two mirrors. It is weird though, don't develop a disorder or something
 

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Originally posted by Phantasmal
If you want to see what you "truly" look like, you could just use two mirrors. It is weird though, don't develop a disorder or something
I did, and I look really fukked up...lol...If I always looked this bad, I dont know how the hell I was getting play then...:confused: Goddamn....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by jiza101
Im confused :(
I know...It doesnt make any sense at all...I guess I must of been doing alot of things right if I looked this bad and girls were still jocking...Fukk it Ill still keep doing what Im doing, its all in my head...
 

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
I did, and I look really fukked up...lol...If I always looked this bad, I dont know how the hell I was getting play then...:confused: Goddamn....
Yeah, it's shocking I know. But it's entirely a psychological thing. You're just used to seeing yourself the other way.
 

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Originally posted by Phantasmal
Yeah, it's shocking I know. But it's entirely a psychological thing. You're just used to seeing yourself the other way.
But I look much better the other way, and I thought that people saw me that way, so I was good...And now I see this...:confused: This is like unplugging me from the Matrix or something...
 

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Careful, don't develop a Dysmorphic Disorder or something. Trust that it's entirely psychological, which it is, and forget about it.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Photos and mirrors are two-dimentional. However, mirrors differ from photos because the image reflected is actually in visual stereo. In a mirror each of your eyes see different angle of the reflection. Your mind then combines those two perspectives into one forming the final image. Photograph captures just one angle of perception.
Wow, I've never heard of this, does this mean it's the same with webcams?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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