Non-masculine things

[Biggie]

So recently there have been a couple things that I do every once in a while, and I realized they are not masculine at all. So i thought maybe if I could write these things down and try to focus on not doing them, it could help me become more masculine.

I'll make a list:
1) I speak in a higher voice to some people (Mainly people in authority)
2) Sometimes i skip instead of walking
3) I tend to hunch forward a little bit
4) I say "Awww" to some girls in like a girly way
5) I have some feminine mannerisms
6) I'm way too caring about others' feelings
7) I'm skinny

I'll add more when I think of them. Also, how about any of you? What are some things you do that aren't so masculine that you'd like to stop doing? And on the flip side, what are some masculine things you do that help you get women?

 

[ProDJ26]

Become the person you envy

 

[Alle_Gory]

1) I speak in a higher voice to some people (Mainly people in authority)

Not cool.

2) Sometimes i skip instead of walking

So? Does this happen often enough to be a problem?

3) I tend to hunch forward a little bit

That's bad posture. Better fix that.

4) I say "Awww" to some girls in like a girly way

So?

5) I have some feminine mannerisms

Like what?

6) I'm way too caring about others' feelings

This isn't really a problem. It becomes a problem if you can't control it and do what you need to do. Feelings are great, but you must have some sort of control otherwise they control you.

Also, how about any of you? What are some things you do that aren't so masculine that you'd like to stop doing? And on the flip side, what are some masculine things you do that help you get women?

I like to cook. I like to make a nice place to live, I like interior design. Is this feminine? Most people think so, but I don't give a fvck. I also like to use women's shampoos and cleaners but I don't give a ****. They work great for hair and skin cleaning and they're cheap.

Personally I could care less what some random people that I don't care to know think of me.

 

[Jariel]

It's very good you are able to look at yourself and identify these issues. Self awareness is essential to self improvement, and now all you need to do is find a solution to these problems.

One solution is to consciously focus on not doing them any more.

The other is to build your testosterone levels and masculinity the natural way. I second buckley on this one and suggest hitting the gym and eating a bulking diet. I had big issues with being too sweet and nice for many years, but the gym sorted that all out for me, gave me confidence, boldness and a presence.

I started a thread in H+F about what foods/supplements to eat in order to increase sex drive and testosterone: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185315

I find when my sex drive is high, my game is on peak form!

 

[Iceberg]

So recently there have been a couple things that I do every once in a while, and I realized they are not masculine at all. So i thought maybe if I could write these things down and try to focus on not doing them, it could help me become more masculine.

I'll make a list:
1) I speak in a higher voice to some people (Mainly people in authority)
2) Sometimes i skip instead of walking
3) I tend to hunch forward a little bit
4) I say "Awww" to some girls in like a girly way
5) I have some feminine mannerisms
6) I'm way too caring about others' feelings
7) I'm skinny

I'll add more when I think of them. Also, how about any of you? What are some things you do that aren't so masculine that you'd like to stop doing? And on the flip side, what are some masculine things you do that help you get women?

Judging yourself so harshly about these things is more "feminine" than the actual things you listed.

Your voice is your voice. Your mannerisms are your mannerisms. You can still be YOU.....just try to make yourself into a better YOU.

We all weren't born to be Braveheart.