Rainman4707
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I'm reading "The way of the Superior man" The author describes, tropical islands, cold beer & music as non human forms of the feminine?? How is this so??
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Non human forms of the feminine
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
taiyuu_otoko
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I'd take that book with a grain of salt. It's pretty "new age" and I think the dude is trying to merge "hippie" ideas with "alpha male."
I think that particular metaphor may be referring to the "masculine-feminine" continuum in nature. Yin -Yang type thing.
I think that particular metaphor may be referring to the "masculine-feminine" continuum in nature. Yin -Yang type thing.