"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Non-confident girls

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I wonder, do you threaten non-confident girls the same way as confident girls? I mean, you can hit a HB by making her doubt about herself, but I ain't sure if this is the smart way to work on a girl who isn't that confident on herself already... also with holding back, let her chase you etc, would she have enough confidence to do that? What's the game there? Enlighten me please :)

Hopefully this ain't asked too often, I really didn't know how to use the search for this one! (the word confident is used for the men, not the gals).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The more confident the girl, the less she'll like attacks on her with C&F or teasing her directly without knowing her well.

She also won't eat up that BS that she's this and that before getting to know her, will take it as a sign of just wanting to use her for sex.

I think with the confident ones, you have to be somewhat of a challenge. They're going to be attacted to strenght and fortitude, not sappy behaviour.
 

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Neg hits are usually reserved for girls with big egos. It can work just as well on a HB 5 as a HB 10, its just how you approach the neg hit that matters. You don't go up to a babe who just accidently spilt her coffee all over herself and go, "Wow, good job! :D :D Can I have your phone number?! ".

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That is bound to get you smacked or worse. Use neg hits on girls who think a little too highly of themselves. I can't really give an example because it is mostly situational, and I have a bad memory :p, but you'll know when to do it ;)


If she is not confident enough, I guess you have to ask yourself do you really want to go for it? I personally think lack of confidence in women just as unappealing as it is when it's a man in her shoes. I don't bother.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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