Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Non-confident girls

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I wonder, do you threaten non-confident girls the same way as confident girls? I mean, you can hit a HB by making her doubt about herself, but I ain't sure if this is the smart way to work on a girl who isn't that confident on herself already... also with holding back, let her chase you etc, would she have enough confidence to do that? What's the game there? Enlighten me please :)

Hopefully this ain't asked too often, I really didn't know how to use the search for this one! (the word confident is used for the men, not the gals).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The more confident the girl, the less she'll like attacks on her with C&F or teasing her directly without knowing her well.

She also won't eat up that BS that she's this and that before getting to know her, will take it as a sign of just wanting to use her for sex.

I think with the confident ones, you have to be somewhat of a challenge. They're going to be attacted to strenght and fortitude, not sappy behaviour.
 

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Neg hits are usually reserved for girls with big egos. It can work just as well on a HB 5 as a HB 10, its just how you approach the neg hit that matters. You don't go up to a babe who just accidently spilt her coffee all over herself and go, "Wow, good job! :D :D Can I have your phone number?! ".

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That is bound to get you smacked or worse. Use neg hits on girls who think a little too highly of themselves. I can't really give an example because it is mostly situational, and I have a bad memory :p, but you'll know when to do it ;)


If she is not confident enough, I guess you have to ask yourself do you really want to go for it? I personally think lack of confidence in women just as unappealing as it is when it's a man in her shoes. I don't bother.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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