"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Non-confident girls

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I wonder, do you threaten non-confident girls the same way as confident girls? I mean, you can hit a HB by making her doubt about herself, but I ain't sure if this is the smart way to work on a girl who isn't that confident on herself already... also with holding back, let her chase you etc, would she have enough confidence to do that? What's the game there? Enlighten me please :)

Hopefully this ain't asked too often, I really didn't know how to use the search for this one! (the word confident is used for the men, not the gals).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The more confident the girl, the less she'll like attacks on her with C&F or teasing her directly without knowing her well.

She also won't eat up that BS that she's this and that before getting to know her, will take it as a sign of just wanting to use her for sex.

I think with the confident ones, you have to be somewhat of a challenge. They're going to be attacted to strenght and fortitude, not sappy behaviour.
 

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Neg hits are usually reserved for girls with big egos. It can work just as well on a HB 5 as a HB 10, its just how you approach the neg hit that matters. You don't go up to a babe who just accidently spilt her coffee all over herself and go, "Wow, good job! :D :D Can I have your phone number?! ".

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That is bound to get you smacked or worse. Use neg hits on girls who think a little too highly of themselves. I can't really give an example because it is mostly situational, and I have a bad memory :p, but you'll know when to do it ;)


If she is not confident enough, I guess you have to ask yourself do you really want to go for it? I personally think lack of confidence in women just as unappealing as it is when it's a man in her shoes. I don't bother.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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