"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nominated best SS poster: Bradd80

TonyBaloney

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Hey chaps,

I've been here a good while, and have been helped alot by some great guys.

There are the neysayers, the Alpha admirers and Alpha haters, the anxious and confident; SS caters for all aspects of the male psyche.

My personal favourite poster is bradd80, this man selflessly helps the unfortunate survivors of BPD witches; I was one of them when I first came, and his wise words still resonate with me. I have subsequently seen him in many instances helping many more folks. I think a few folks ought to take a leaf out of his book and remember we are here to help each other.

So who do you rate - and why?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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cola

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Hope you got condoms, the way your on his d!ck..
 

SamTheHobit

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cola said:
Hope you got condoms, the way your on his d!ck..
What this guy said.
 

MM92

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I like him, Pimpsicle, Desd-something and a few others who i'm struggling to remember. I'm sure they'll know who they are.
 

MM92

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I liked Jariel too. Whatever happened to him? Jophil was before my time.

That's what this site is all about. Coming here and learning from people that have been in your position before and know where you're going wrong. I just wish I would have come here earlier, although then I guess I wouldn't have made the mistakes I did to learn from.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Solomon

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If you don't think your the best yourself then your doing it wrong not being ****y just saying.....

Bradd is nice and I give him his props as being the best FR guy out right now but guys forgot already what I use to do

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154722

Just saying you guys have short memories here and there tons more reports....

*pops collar, and dips out*
 

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There's one guy who always seems to talk sense, I think it's Iceberg or someone who starts with an I. He gets that it isn't about making your life about girls, but just enjoying the company of them while doing what you do. Can't be bothered to look up if I got the username right but I think that's it.
 

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TonyBaloney said:
My personal favourite poster is bradd80, this man selflessly helps the unfortunate survivors of BPD witches; I was one of them when I first came, and his wise words still resonate with me.
(Yes homo).

bradd80 said:
I'm more proud of my disasters than i am of my successes, because it's the failures that made me learn, encouraged me to become better, and motivated me to never repeat my mistakes!
But maybe Tony was right.

Nah, you guys know my favorite is still my delusional self.
 

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I like Iceberg's posts, and of course Rollo, Duffdog (harsh though), Mike32ct, Burroughs (love his analogy about MIT students and groupies) and bradd with that field report & translations! There's a good more posters too that I like.

Can't forget Jophil! R.I.P.
 
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I dig brads reports. My favorite posters that seem to really get it are iceberg and dbot.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jophil, Iceberg, Floydb, Bradd, (Incognito for his destruction of POF), GSPsheilds (for acting like a complete clueless moron for the LULZ.) Solomon.
 
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AlphaRomeo! The mustard on a woman's coat is just a classic.
 

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I'm a fan of Burroughs. I don't even have to check who's posting when I read his verbal missiles. Classic.
Bradd for his complete lack of shame. He just tells it like it is.
Danger for his calm, no-nonsense approach.
Scaramouche. I hope I'm still as sharp and playing the game at his age.
Mantis Toboggan seems completely unaffected by most things that drive others crazy.
Backbreaker. The world's most long-winded poster but he always makes a solid point.
Slickster and I seem to agree on a lot of issues.
Oh, and all the mods cos I'm a suck-up. :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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We already have a system for this. It's called the rating to post ratio.
 

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Amante Silvestre deserves credit, among the many others already listed above

Oh and zarky, he gives funnies!
 

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I must second Amante Silvestre. He's not very prolific but what he does write carries some serious firepower. I would say he is the most under-appreciated member here.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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