narcissist
Master Don Juan
I am so fvcking horny. I have a 7th grade raging hard-on standing in line at Tim Hortons. I'd smash a 70 year old GILF right now.
Day 2.
Day 2.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Is 9 days long enough to provide an accurate sample in this "scientific research"Why bother asking others what their results are when you aren't open to results that don't support your preconceived notions about it? Sorry buddy, but that's how scientific research works. You have to be open to accepting the data that doesn't support your hypothesis along with the rest.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Indeed. When I fap after being on a no fap spree for a certain period of time , I feel fine. But , I know that if I go it 3 days in a row, im fvcked.I have noticed that even if you (I) fail after a few days, those few days abstinence bring some benefit; like t-levels are already restored to a level that one failure won't make a huge difference.
The biggest detriment for me happens when I fail on consecutive days - therefore t-levels drained too far in a short space of time. Earlier in the year I managed to cut down to once per week (on the same day each week, like a Sunday, when nothing much happens anyway). All the benefits remained, while staving off thirst and agitation of complete abstinence. If you manage 4/5/6 days abstinence each week I think the same benefits remain as for a complete cold turkey. Eventually might cut down or stop completely.
I believe it can postpone the urge to fap for a while but I'm not sure. There was guy in an older nofap post here in ss and he said it can enchase your testo or something. I could never make it anyway because once i start faping while watching porn , is already too late.Is it breaking nofap watching some porn, fapping a bit but not coming? Had this relapse yesterday...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.